What can I say about myself that doesn’t seem contrived. I’m a married man of 41 who’s home life has led to it being more about admin and practicality. I love my wife and not looking for anything other than some fun and a break from the monotony from a generally sexless marriage. Just need a little fun to stay sane.

I don't take myself too seriously, and am generally open minded and open to new experiences when possible. I enjoy music like most, no particular genre or type and most sports having recently taken up swimming to try get back into shape.

Typically kinda average size maybe a bit in the “cuddly” side, if that’s how they phrase it, black hair, average height and hazel eyes. I’m Irish but have Latin history so not your typical Irishman.

From the academic side of things, I'm university educated, with background in science and education and currently on a career break to deal with family issues. I enjoy intelligence in people and humour. Someone who doesn’t take things too seriously as that’s what I get at home.

Discretion is key for me please.

Even if it’s just email or chatting or a possible secret meet in a swimming pool cubicle feel free to send me a message. I’ll say hello back.

Best of luck!