Hi, pair of absolute beginners here. I am 46 and a curvy size 18. Very nervous about being too big and too old for this type of fun. My husband is best described as cuddly 49 shaven head and stubble. We’ve had the pillow talk and are now looking to see about visiting a club, maybe just to play ourselves for a while until we see what’s what. All advice would be appreciated. We’re not looking for single men and as absolute first timers would just prefer club meets with no pressure. As I said I’m probably too big and too old anyway for you all but here goes.....