Mmm, ah, right here goes ... Best to start by being honest. I'm in a relationship and don't want to spoil that or anyone else's. I am VERY discreet and expect you to be also. I am a well educated man with a really good job, I'm just feeling unfulfilled in the sex department. My job means I can be very flexible about meeting, but definitely not at weekends. I am completely genuine and definitely don't want to attract any time-wasters. If you're interested then get in touch and let's start chatting...see where it might lead us.