I am a single male looking for some female company, this site seems to be a possible way of getting some. It has taken me a long time, and a lot of thought, before deciding to attempt to get involved in swinging. I have been visiting the swinging-heaven website for 2 years or more, trying to get my head around, how anyone could be comfortable doing this. I guess this is a completely normal reservation that everyone has to overcome. The 'couples looking for men' adverts are full of comments about men agreeing to meet, then backing out. I can understand why single men are by far the highest number group, and single women are by far the lowest number group. So the best option for me, in order to get involved, is to find a fuck-buddy. But as I am completely inexperienced, would I be suitable as a fuck-buddy ? More to the point, would I actually go through with it ? Or would I back out at the last moment ? ( as is commonplace, even for people who are very sexually experienced ). I reckon that in order to go through with this, you have got to, either have got your head around the concept, or be such a dirty slapper ( male or female ) that you just don't care. I reckon that I have got my head around this, and that I will be able to go through with it, although I will be very nervous and very reticent at first.