Hi there. This is going to sound very negative, but please bear with me. I have joined this site with some reservations. For various reasons, circumstances have led to my wife directing me here to find new friendships, but I'm not convinced that I'm going to be suitable for this sort of thing or that it will suit me. I'm not trying to put you off, I just don't want to promise anything more than some cheerful flirting at the moment until I find my feet. For now I'll be browsing around and just trying to discover whether I should dive into this wholeheartedly or run screaming for the hills. If you want to say hi, feel free. I would describe myself as: well-travelled, gregarious, outgoing, liberal, courteous and cheerful.  I’m relatively tall, clean shaven, wear glasses, suited and booted usually but happy to dress down where appropriate