Oh to be a very slim, bi curious female....they seem to get all the best invites!!!!

Happy to just talk, to get to know each other and become online friends but would like to try to take things further.

I am a successful, professional gentleman, married, 48, but our relationship is unfortunately non existent due to both of our individual work commitments. So technically and legally still married but very much estranged!! I have learnt my lesson once and know I should give any lady friend the care and attention they deserve and there is more to life than work!!!! So now looking for relaxation and some NSA fun.

I am well mannered, clean and if we play, we play safe (I have also had the snip). If we agree to meet, I am happy to meet up for a drink or a bite to eat, in a location of your choosing, so we can get to know each other better and hopefully get along because if we are to take things further I believe there will need to be some mutual attraction. I understand and adhere to boundaries. Your safety and feelings are important to both of us and a warm, enjoyable and fun atmosphere will help ensure we both enjoy any time together.

I am a realist and understand that if we meet, we may not click, even though we may have been best of buddies on line and shared some intimate desires.

I am 6 ft tall, well built (not chubby) and have my own hair (shortly cut) with only a slightly receding hairline. I am willing to send more discrete photos later, once we have got to know each other better. I was academically successful and have had a very good career as a result, and this has allowed me to travel around the world. I have played a lot of team sports in the past, I can scuba dive and enjoy the outdoors and walking. I have recently started a series of 'more' exotic short cooking courses. I enjoy reading to help me relax and I am a season ticket holder of a local football team, so I am not available when the team are playing at home.

If we were to take any meeting further, I believe I can give a lady the focus she deserves. I love sensual flirting, caressing, foreplay, slow passionate kissing and the thrilling discovery as 2 people get to know one another. I am willing to provide a soft or more intense massage. If we were to go further I would just love to seduce a lady with my tongue and ensure she is tingling with excitement. In fact I am happier ensuring that she is more excited and thrilled than me.

I am able to meet at certain times during weekdays, as I work from home and can arrange my schedule around certain arrangements, but I am not able to host. I am willing to travel and will consider organising a hotel room, if that is ultimately required.

I will meet all kinds of ladies as I am attracted by many things, although I probably wouldn't meet BBWs (sorry but your just not my type - although big is a relative word so just because you class yourself as BBW, you may not be big in my eyes).

Please be aware that I do not do , , , Cam to Cam and I rarely do IMing.

I will always try to be polite and considerate and I take my time to read your profile carefully so that I do not contact people who clearly do not want to meet me. Apologies if I have misunderstood or misjudged your profile and sent you a mail when there is absolutely no chance of meeting. I believe it is reasonable to expect the same from others.....so please read carefully.

Would you like to take this further.....at the very least you get a drink and a chat....you never know where it will lead. We could just flirt online or perhaps enjoy an hour or two of pure lust and excitement!!!