I'm recently separated, didn't see that one coming! No more wives, girlfriends or relationships for me, I'm done with that for now haha. Let's try this instead.

I work out so I'm looking ok for 44! Hairy chest and body, (the back gets waxed!) shaved head as there's too much receding going on! I used to be on this site a number of years ago with my wife, so I have some experience. I have been the male half of a couple meeting single guys, so I remember all the dos and don'ts I expected of them. I don't take myself or life too seriously, I'm friendly and respectful too. If I meet a couple or a lady and it goes no further than a drink and chat, well then I've had a nice evening out of the house!

I enjoyed some good social times when last in the lifestyle and met folks with similar interests and outlook on life, so I hope to rediscover that now. It's not all about getting a bunk up you know, I can find that on a certain free dating site! Although that was a little too awkward and a little too vanilla, so I found my way back here.

I'm single and live alone but some discretion is required due to circumstances in the other world, though I guess that's the same for most on here. So whether it's a Costa by day or something stronger by night, let me know (but you're buying!)

There are face pics in my private album.

Theon xx