Hi, we went into this as a couple, the wife is going through the change and gone off sex. We thought this might kickstart things again, unfortunately she has chickened out !! This has left me with balls fit to burst and desperate for a shag. All things will be considered I am a firm believer in iff you haven't tried it don't knock it. give me a reply please if only to prove that there is people out there who like me would like uncomplicated sex and that this site is real and actually works. Love Timmo