I live with my boyfriend who is lacking in the sex department. The last time I had kissing and foreplay was with my previous boyfriend in 2004. I have lost that turned on, rampant sex I used to have.

I'm testing the water with this as I don't know if I'm the "cheating" type - maybe more thought than action? I think I'll be very nervous.

I'd be looking for straight, clean, presentable men (30 -40) - condoms really are a must!! I think I would prefer to meet first to see how we get on and judge the chemistry. With notice I can accommodate a few times a month. With notice I can make working late excuses etc.