Very new to the scene, just testing the water to see if its something we would like to explore further, definitely dont want pushy individuals, if you come across as arrogant and pushy we will just ignore you, if your a single male you best play it cool, dont like the thought of single guys trying too hard, if your confidence is high that's great for you, but she is very shy, and he is very protective and will kick off if you try to be pushy and forceful