I am really a gay cross dresser that is looking for someone with similar interests or a bi guy that likes cross dressers. Not into the pain things but would like to try a little bottom spanking. I like watersports so dont be shy about that. I prefer someone that doesnt have a lot of body hair, this is because I shave all mine off and I have never been keen on it anyway. My feminine name is Wendy but you can call me what you like. I am not i a position to host now due to working patterns and daytime fun is more suited to me as I work nights