Time for me to explore new expirences

I had been living in a 24/7 bdsm relationship until my husband passed away 3 years ago and now feel the time is right to reignite the sexual side of my life. I am not looking for that lifestyle again but I know I would still enjoy some elements of the associated play. Hope to chat online to like minded people and get to meet up and share some NSA safe hot fun!

*Update:- Having spent my birthday night with an amazingly talanted man with a truly eclectic style of pleasuring, I can absolutely declare that vanilla does not suit my tastes! 

*I am also NOT interested in being approached by people "in to older women"