Ive been married now for 20 years and I've  come to  a point in my life where I need to add  some excitement back. I need to have that spark put back that I had when I was younger and experience something new that excilerates me again and allows me to explore what is currently missing and see where it may lead .  I'm a regular guy with the same dreams and aspirations as most people , but they don't always pan out as you expect . So looking for some new fun and new adventures both socially and sexually . I am very discreet .