single straight man of certain age, certain meaning 64.  Suddenly woke up from a 50year sleep feeling I just missed some really good things so I’m not trying to catch up just do what a person in my situation might do normally.  I think all the interests I’ve listed are fine, normal enjoyable...and my motto I guess has to be to do no harm, and enjoy life.  I like talking, really I can’t do those interesting activities without it, so it’s pretty basic.