Hi, I've come back to membership after a few years absence. Honestly...(theres no reason not to be honest and there must be a fair bit of "BS" flying about from a few of the "on their owns") - I'm a married guy but wife not really into it...sad, but there you are, and I am into her too much to try and change her. My tendencies are mainly voyeuristic - such a thrill to be able to watch....and here I am - I would swing if circumstances were different, but I am happy and lucky to be able to content myself by sharing with other husbands and partners ALL of their lovely, lovely ladies, - who bring so much pleasure to the swinging side of a non-swinging couple. I am content with on-line "participation", it brightens up my day - and who knows if the opportunity were ever to present itself to in some way go "off-line".....anyway Cheers to all.