New to this!

My wife and I are toying with the idea of swinging or dogging, dogging sounds ok because my wife has always enjoyed outdoor sex because of the buzz that we may be caught. My wife is quite self concious about her weight/size & as I am the only man my wife has ever had sex with she is quite worried about letting another man near her sexually, which has stopped her taking the plunge ( so too speak. )

If we did swinging it would be with either a bi or straight male because I know my wife would freak at the site of me jumping over another woman i'd prefare a bi guy because even if we both had sex with my wife there is hope that I could have some man on man fun????

Can't say what my sexual activities are at the moment because I aint explored all of them yet, but I can say I enjoy dressing up le fem! I enjoy anal sex would love to have sex whilst others watched and wanked and maybe even join in? There is lots more but i'll leave it there for now. I would like to say i'd love to get together with a bi couple or couple with straight female but i'm not certain my wife would aprove?