hi I was on this site 3 to 4 years ago and will be trying to hunt down friends but due to ex husband I am having to be careful .I have a master who controls me now he will say who when and where I go he will be present at all times for safety as well as making sure I am doing good and giving my best he may join in but will ask you if your happy with me if yr not you need to tell him and he will sort it me out xxxx