I am on here meet people on all levels, dont mind chatting and being friends if you actually want to talk about all kinds of stuff....I have an arts background and am learning to be a counsellor so may tell you I am open to hearing peoples stories. As far as casual sex have found that over the last fifteen years or more I am well able to satisfy the people I am with but usually dont finish myself, not because the women werent attractive or not good in bed....just I need a good sparring partner that gives as good as she gets basically, have got a little bored of just giving, as much as I enjoy it..Please dont have preconceived ideas because I am oriental looking...my last girlfriend was a black Jamaican woman from south London who had only ever been with black guys, she had only ever cum twice in her life and basically the first night I was with her she came at least 5 times, know it sounds a little coarse saying that on here but its how it is...Im just good at what I do and dont think I should hide it anymore....I am not your average bunny....find this place a bit of a lame joke.