Hi,

I'm looking to meet with women and couples in the 30-50 age bracket for light-hearted `softish' fun, e.g. touching, voyeurism, picture/video, sensual, oral (giving especially). Ideally (there have been exceptions!) I like to get to know the people I meet up with for more than a one-off. I really enjoy good conversation, a wicked sense of humour, intelligence, and engagement with the world beyond this website. Beyond a fairly minimal level of physical attractiveness I find an intelligent/dry/naughty/dark SOH by far the most alluring quality in a woman. That's probably true of men too, except that I don't find them alluring, just good company!

I tend to get along better with confident women who have something interesting, funny or pleasant to say, rather than someone who feels that their mere physical presence in the room is sufficient.

I'm highly educated, interested in Ideas but still a down-to-earth type with a dry/wrong SOH. I have been told that I have nice blue eyes (beholder dependent though I guess). I don't have a six pack but I'm not fat either and scrub up well. If you're looking for a swaggering stud then I'm not your man, but if intelligence, SOH and sensuality floats your boat then we might just click. A bit of plain old silly sexy sauciness is fun too :)

For professional reasons I have not made my face pic public but I'm happy to provide one on request. Thanks for taking the time to read this far.