I'm looking for someone interested in the unusual, the challenging, and by most SH standards, well beyond 'kinky'.

But first, to avoid wasting your time...

I am in a vanilla, and no I don't have permission to 'play'.

Not proud of that fact, but there it is.

If you are still reading:

As a starting point, I have a deep interest in the BDSM side of life.

If I were to strip down the multitude of physics 'interests', the core of my drive comes down to power exchange.

Everything else is just a physical manifestation of that. As such I'm constantly fascinated by all kinks & fetishes in general, and rule little out for the right person.

Constantly veering off course to investigate new places (even if mostly in my own mind these days.)

Ah, but Dom or sub you wonder ?

I would consider revisiting switching with an exceptional f, but otherwise pretty much every other bone in my body is crying out to submit.

Nice and compliant, or screaming the whole journey long.

Ultimately, it really depends on who I meet as to what direction & how far things could go with regard to physical kinks.

Nothing on the SH interest list is out of reach, and there are plenty, plenty of opportunities beyond it.

Ah well by now you will have noticed that I have kept a lot open and ruled out little. So to help, the main thing for me is to find someone who is intelligent and bothered enough to converse and discuss.

Second is someone who thinks bad thoughts.

Creative, daring yet practical, twisted yet legal.