We are a happy couple who would like to meet others for a few drinks and a chat and see what develops. As we are new to this we would prefer non pushy couples so we could "find our feet" so to speak! But saying that, if we meet the right people then we would play - soft play to start with, not full swap but happy to see what progresses as the friendships develop. She has explored her bi side and both are happy for this to be part of our fun, he would love to watch, and would be happy to join in only if invited.