We are a very happily married couple, having celebrated our silver wedding anniversary in May 2022.  We have always enjoyed an active sex life, with some, relatively mild, experimentation along the way.  Apart from occasional out-of-term time visits from younger child, we’re pretty well empty-nesters now and aiming to make the most of it, reminding ourselves of why we got together in the first place.

Until very recently, neither of us had envisaged involving anyone else in our sex life, even though some months ago, she had flirted with a much younger guy at a gig in Yorkshire, suggesting, for instance, that he ought to have his cock sucked by an older woman such as her to get an idea of what a proper blow job feels like.  She shared details of the conversation with me afterwards and I tried to persuade her that if the opportunity should arise again, she should follow through, but only if I could watch.  She was appalled by the idea and made it clear that she didn’t want to discuss it again, ever!

However,……..some weeks ago, it was necessary for us to have some plumbing work done and she took an instant (and quite obsessive) shine to the plumber.  After his first day on the job, they exchanged some very naughty and explicit texts.  After a couple of days of this, she shared what had been going on with me and we had a lengthy discussion about whether she should attempt to “up the ante” and put into action some of the things which had been discussed in the texts.  I wholeheartedly agreed that she should go as far as she felt comfortable to do.  She has made it very clear in subsequent texts to said plumber that she wants him to fuck her, and very roughly!  Alas, due to various cancelled appointments, time constraints, etc., so far, they have only had a very passionate snogging session – tongues and everything!  But other opportunities are available as we have now moved house and there are a couple of little jobs that can only be done properly by a plumber! (allegedly!)

But in the meantime……. a few weeks back we met up with another couple (he is a colleague of mine and him and I had been trying to arrange something for a while; the move of house forced the issue).  We had an excellent Indian meal and then retired back to their house to enjoy their champagne bar until 2:00am.  At one point I was conscious that she had gone to the toilet at least 10 minutes ago and my colleague also hadn’t been seen for at least the same time.  I was casually chatting with my colleague’s wife and didn’t think anything of it, and eventually they both returned, separately.  So, we left at 2:00am to walk (well, stagger!) home and as soon as we were out in the fresh air, she shared with me that, when she had exited the downstairs toilet, my colleague had beckoned her over to the kitchen with a hooked finger and they had proceeded to snog passionately for a few minutes and then he started groping and eventually licking and sucking her nipples (by this time both ladies had dispensed with bras so access was straightforward).  So ever since that evening, she has been obsessing over both men and her desire to, ideally, fuck them both in due course.  And, this seems to have given her a new lease of life and a new, much more open, perspective on life and our sex lives in general.

All the above has been an absolute boon to our sex life.  In the past I would finger-fuck and/or tongue-fuck her to an orgasm, and that would be her done, apart from taking care of me of course.  In the past few weeks there have been a number of occasions where I have brought her to 5 or 6 orgasms, one after the other, often not stopping with finger and/or tongue in between times.  She has been insatiable and we have both been loving it.  And, very recently, she squirted for the first time – and thoroughly enjoyed it.

She also seems to have been more obviously seeing and admiring men, in the pub, restaurants, etc. and seems to have been getting smiles and other acknowledgments back from some of them.  So now seems like a good time, especially having just moved house, to experiment with other couples.  Although we haven’t moved terribly far, we’re keen to make some new friends first and foremost, and then see how things develop if there is mutual four-way attraction, or perhaps just three-way with either a single-man or single bi-curious woman.

We’re ideally looking for interested parties between mid-40s to mid-60s but we’re not particularly fussy age-wise if someone outside that range finds our profile interesting and wants to link up.