Hi, I am new to all of this. I am married, but my wife has no involvement or knowledge of this. I am finding that my sex life is fairly mundane and boring and I need to add a bit of excitement to it.

I am 50 years old, of medium build (in all areas . . . so don't have a 9 incher I'm afraid, but I can make up for that in enthusiasm!!), but starting to add a little weight around my middle!! I am regarded by some as quite attractive. I have a professional occupation and would regard myself as reasonably intelligent! I would love to watch you . . . and no doubt a raging stiffy!!

As my wife has no knowledge of this I cant meet at weekends or evenings, but I can get out of work if you wanted to meet during the day. I have a house close to where I work in South Shields and available to meet in or I'm quite happy to meet at your place or in a hotel.

I sometimes use a cam on Yahoo messenger to wank for appreciative guys and women and watch them. I would like to explore all aspects of my sexuality and try, at least once, just about anything. I realise we only have one life and I can see lost opportunities slipping past.

You can email me direct its_ and if you have Yahoo Messenger find me online where we can talk and chat and if you want I have a cam so you could have a good look before we meet.

I am also on MSN as its_ if you prefer to chat/cam on there.