I'm told I'm quite the charmer, but I really just say what's on my mind... often without engaging my brain first, which can lead to trouble!!

I'm a professional working man. I live in Northamptonshire

I used to be a regular on SH a few years back and some of you will remember me from the chat rooms.

It's important that I can have a friendship with the person/people involved as I'm a big believer in having fun, being able to socialise with you as well as get naughty in private.

I'm very clean, always play safely, and experienced. I'm very genuine and don't break off meetings unless it's a matter to do with my son (he's my world and ALWAYS comes first) or work.

I'm not really hung up on looks or body shape or even age, it's always about the connection and drama free fun times so don't be hesitant in saying hi or sending me an message. I answer them all so long as you stimulate my brain you're in with a big chance.

Jay