My goal at this moment in my life to allow others in to my life in a meaningful way and to be in their lives in a meaningful way - mutually enriching each others' experiences and all that jazz. It's working very well for me at the moment, and I hope my friends feel the same.

I love making new friends, talking to people - so of course I'd love for you to come up and say hi!

Kinky Stuff

I'm a Bull:

Have had experiences with couples in a cuckold situation and can play the role of bull when needed.

I'm Dom:

That means a lot of things to a lot of different people. Here's what it means to me. I like to be making the decisions. I feel very strongly that decisions should not be made unilaterally and that all points of view are considered and that a compromise is reached. Then: that is the decision I make. What I crave is that responsibility; that in everyday life I can be responsible for and care for others. I have been described as a sensual Dom: I find caring for someone, nurturing them, guiding them to be deeply fulfilling.

I'm a sub

Also very much a sub! can just as easily get into a sub head space as i can Dom. it is a fairly new thing i have been exploring and will continue to explore.

I'm also not any of those things:

I don't act dominant in everyday life; I think that would make me a bit of a wanker. I'm happy to not sit at the top of any given chain of command, I'm happy to pitch in and help, I'm happy to relax and let others make decisions.

I'm not a violent man; I certainly never want to inflict pain and hurt people. I love my friends and care for them deeply - the last thing I want to do is cause them pain.

I'm not an animal; I'm a thinker, intensely critically-minded. I love debate and informed conversation.

Play:

In play I enjoy the control. In short: I top - almost stereotypically so. I like to see you rendered breathless and quivering from sensation play, a puppet on my strings.

Aftercare is full of cuddles, reassurances, and anything else I can do to bring you back to Earth softly and with a smile - this gives me an immense sense of satisfaction and pride.