we are a couple in our early 50s and this is our first time at swinging,we would like an extra male to join us in a threesome,the guy to have sex with my wife while i watch him ,then i join in,or finish her of,we like toys, watching porn and she likes plenty of oral 1st,we would have to have a photo or meet 1st and get to know each other expect total safe and clean sex,no stds etc and must respect at all cannot accomadate and would like to video it as well for our personel use.