"Securely married" with a wife who is completely dissinterested in sex, recreational or otherwise, I am looking for (ideally) a long term friendship with a lady (married or single); I have had such long term friendships before but am currently 'looking for a new one' after my last ended some time ago.

I am 'normal', civilised, and considerate; good company in and out of bed, reasonably fit and quite healthy - and am far better at 'making love' than at hot frantic sex - and sex is usually 'only a lot of fun' with friends that you really like.