Hi

I'm a married 43 year old and looking to enjoy life before old age creeps in, my wife is not currently interested in swinging so that means I’m a married man who swings alone. I know this makes me as attractive as pond scum but I feel I should explain why I do this and then you can decide if you want to read on.

Basically my wife has bad Rheumatoid Arthritis and this means we don’t have much of a physical relationship, we are very close and kiss and cuddle all the time, but anything physical is painful for her so we just don’t really do anything.

However I still have a sex drive, and so now and again I meet up with people for a bit of fun, so I’m not a serial adulterer. I’m just a man who loves his wife but I’m not able to make love to her as often as I would like, and so swinging is the lesser of 2 evils and it also means I can meet nice people for a chat and some fun now and again.

I'm not looking for a quick shag but would prefer to meet up with people for a drink and a chat and see how we get on. Maybe it'll lead to more........ I guess really I want to make some new friends. I prefer to meet people of a similar age to myself. I am a beliver in the old saying, true beauty lies within and so I don't get hung up on looks as personality is much more important.

please don't think I am a time waster as I really want to increase my circle of friends, and enjoy life a bit.