About me 

This profile is dynamic and is subject to change/alteration as life develops

Introduction

So like most people I do not find this profile writing easy. I guess I should tell you a little about me. I am Simon and I aim to be kind, caring, sensitive, and romantic.

Simone

I also have an occasional TV side that doesn't come out as much as it used to due to my life changing but it is still very much part of my make up (pun not intended). But I still have a quite feminine non brutish/masculine personality sometimes even though I can assert myself sometimes even though I can be very shy at times.

I have blue eyes and I am 5 foot 10 tall and when en femme I can usually can be seen sporting an auburn bob wig.

I have been dressing for many years now. I first got into dressing when I met up with a pre op TS friend of mine from the internet and I met up with some of her friends on the transgendered scene in Birmingham whilst I was at University there.

After many discussions with them I discovered that there was a latent part of me that wished to express my feminine side in a more practical way. I have always been feminine in my outlook, I am a real romantic and sensitive creature.

I went out sometimes with friends in the gay village and other accepting venues, be that in Birmingham, near Milton Keynes and London. It was during this time that I discovered the haven that is the 

BDSM interests

First of all let me say this I AM A SWITCH & I AM PROUD OF IT!!! lol.

I have also been into BDSM for many years now and I am most defintely into the active scene i.e. munches, clubs, parties etc.

I like sensation play, wax play, light flogging, as a bottom I enjoy servitude in the form of massage or cooking, body, leg, foot and intimate worship and violet wands both as top and bottom.

When bottoming I am open to try new things after discussing fully with a Dominant, within reason.

My favourite toy is my violet wand, in fact I think I can say that it is the one thing a lot of people who have seen me at events know me for.

I am always very happy to demonstrate it, once i have had a safety, medical and limits talk with the person who wants to try it.

Please do not be offended if I decide that it may not appropriate to use on you either at that time or ever.

Please do not pester and pressure me regarding my decision, as I do not deal al all well with this kind of persistence.

I have many different exciting glass attachments for my violet wand, including a couple of rare ones, plus I can be very creative when it comes to secondary contact ideas.

My violet wand is my baby and I am very protective of her so hands off unless I have agreed beforehand.

My sexuality can probably best be described as sapiosexual, that is I am more attracted to a persons mind rather than physically. I am very open minded sexually.

I also have been known to refer to myself as pansexual.

I also have a presence on other sites

When it comes to the BDSM side of life I would say that I am very open minded and always open to try new things.

Medical things

I have high functioning Asperger's Syndrome hence at times I can be socially awkward and not always recognize the cues when I overstep other people's boundaries. I am however eager to please so just tell me what I am doing wrong and I will endeavour to correct it.

I can be painfully shy but I am finding myself more confident lately.

I do have some other physical problems too, I have fibromyalgia, arthritis and a chronic pain problem amongst many other things.

I am a [removed] and proud.

I do have have social anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder and depression too so if I seem withdrawn or am ignoring you, I probably am taking time to process things or come down from a panic attack.

Vanilla interests

I am very much into photography and am currently starting to look into integrating this into my fetish interests too.

I enjoy food and cooking, I guess one would probably call me a foodie.

I also enjoy watching stuff be that DVDs, BluRays, TV, cinema or theatre.

I have a diverse and eclectic taste in music.

Look forward to hearing back from some of you all soon, making new friends or more etc.

I apologise for the long profile but I believe in proper profiles not just one liner throwaway comments.