I am a fairly good looking 34 year old guy living in Southampton. I play solo with the support and encouragement of my wife, she isn't interested in joining in, so don't ask ;)

I particularly crave oral sex, also fascinated by the power of the visual - (my long overdue fantasy is to meet someone anonymously and simply masturbate for each other without touching!). I'll never claim to be physically gifted, but I do have a silly dirty mind and enjoy the humour that comes with swinging. You can't take this game seriously, can you!

I'd love to hear from women and couples who are looking for a gentle, reliable and personable guy to join in with sex play purely for recreation. I respect couples with solid relationships who choose to invite others into the bedroom and certainly do all I can to ensure everyone enjoys our time together. I am comfortable with other guys in a group context. Although I don't look for sex with men directly, I am open to male contact where it occurs naturally within a MFM situation.

If I sound like the type of guy you'd like to meet up with, please drop me a line, I'll be thrilled to hear from you :)

A wise old man once said "Life's short, try everything".... well, difficult to argue with the old fella.