--Who am I?--

I am a genuine 38 year old, reasonably fit male based in London/Kent. I am not new to this and have done this before as couple and single

I don't keep face pictures public but happy to send to those who want to know more and will always include one in first message

I am not new to this and have done this before as couple and single but by no means a hardened swinger. I don't spend all my time here as have plenty to keep me busy so apologies if I don't reply straight away.

--Who am I looking for?--

I'm certainly not here to sleep my way through the site. I am very selective over meets. I don't really have a "type". Different things attract me to different people. it could be eyes, smile, figure who knows. That said I do have a real soft spot for redheads. I would like to find people I am comfortable with, attracted to, can have a bit of a laugh with and enjoy each others company. If that works then the rest is often much more fun.

If I looked at your profile more than once then I am interested, I just may not have had time to sit down and write a proper message.

--What am I looking for?--

This is a difficult one. Of course I have things I enjoy but I often find that by setting exactly what you want in stone you may never find it or end up disappointed when you don't get it. I like to keep options open and take things as they come (no pun intended). The only thing I never really do is clubs - just never found them all that great.

--Will I waste your time?--

No, of course not. I have been screwed around here, and not always in the way I would want. I do have a webcam/facetime/ to prove who I am and I am happy to exchange Kik messages etc until everyone is happy to give out mobile numbers.

I am genuine and if I do arrange something I will be there unless the world suddenly ends or Cthulu himself appears. Nothing worse than last minute cancellations or people who go silent.

If you are still reading then well done. Drop me a message!