Olivia here with a tale from my BDSM side.  As you may know by now, when it comes to sex, I have a wide array of interests.   Before we left Colorado, we went to Voodoo BDSM Club right here in Colorado Springs.  They had a tasting night where you could try different things at various stations. 

We browsed around a bit and chatted with a few couples we knew from the local swing scene.  Curiously, the BDSM crowd and the Swinger Group didn’t have much of an overlap in people.  I got a sense the BDSM folks were a bit disdainful of the Swingers.  No matter, I was like a kid in a sweet shop. 

My eye was drawn to a good-looking guy setting up some unusual equipment.  My Hubby and I walked over and met Vince.  As fate would have it, Vince would first become my Dom and later, a regular play partner.   He taught my Hubby the fine art of being a Dom.   I’ll save that story for another time. 

I asked Vince what the equipment was for?  He smiled and suggested, "Why don’t you let me show you, but first, an explanation.   This is a Violet Wand setup.  It uses electricity to stimulate your body in an erotic way.  You have two ways of doing this Vince explained.  The first is the plate makes contact with your bare skin making you the positive side of the circuit.  To get the feeling, I act as the ground and use various instruments to stimulate you.   The alternative is you are the ground, the wand has the attachments, and it is positive.  I use the wand to stimulate you.  The power setting is adjustable." 

 I quickly dismissed the idea as I wasn’t into shock therapy despite Vince being damn hot.  I started to walk away, and my Hubby grabbed my arm and said, “Not so fast Olivia, let’s see a demo.”   I reluctantly agreed and Vince had me hold the positive plate.  He assured me the setting was low.  The first device he tried was a springy contraption used to give head massages.  The feeling was amazing, I felt my pussy getting wet as he playfully massaged my head with the gizmo.  After a minute or so, he stopped and asked, “Olivia, are you up for more?” “Yes, I didn’t want you to stop.  I sure was I assured him. 

I got out of my top and bra and laid down on a padded table.  I have a 38 D bust with no sag which isn’t bad for a middle-aged woman.  I drew a crowd of spectators to watch the demo.  I didn’t care, they are just boobs I thought.  Vince put the positive plate under my shoulder making me the positive charge.  He gave my Hubby some metal claws to fit over his fingertips.  “These are called Vampire Claws,” Vince explained.  “They are also used for playing the Banjo, but since we don’t have a Banjo, let’s play your lovely wife. We will drag our claws across her chest and watch her reaction.  Careful though, the points of the claws have a sharper bite as compared to the backs.  The reason is less space for the current to pass through,” Vince told us. 

The guys started dragging the claws across my chest.  A few laps around each nipple and boy were the girls (my boobs) and I was aroused.  After a few minutes, Vince pulled out a long-beaded lamp chain.   My Hubby was enjoying the Dom side of this and snaked the chain all over my chest.  While he did this, Vince let him know that was a fun one for the pussy lips as well. 

The crowd was getting restless as more people wanted to get a try at the booth;  reluctantly I got off the table and got dressed to a standing ovation from the crowd.  Hubby got Vince’s contact information and the website where we could buy our own Wand.  Christmas was coming up and I knew a wand setup would be under the tree for me.

The wand came as planned in a metal briefcase.   It had all sorts of attachments including light bulbs, spiky rollers, fake fur, and so many options it took all day Christmas to try them all.  I now have my favorites and enjoy being blindfolded so I don’t see what’s coming.

My Hubby is now in demand at swing parties to demonstrate the Violet Wand.  We use it mainly for foreplay and is a nice change of pace.  I have multiple orgasms when the wand is stimulating me.  I don’t like to be tickled so this makes a pleasurable alternative.

The moral of the story is, don’t be afraid to try new things, if they aren’t enjoyable, don’t do them.    Vince and I text often.  He and my Hubby share ideas on how to please me.    Because of our interest in BDSM activities, going to the hardware store has taken on a new meaning.   My Hubby is always on the lookout for new items to try and I am always willing, as you say, “to give it a go.”