I am Rhea, a 38 year old married lady of African origin. I have been married now for 10 years, shortly after marriage, my Husband revealed he was partial to spanking, goiving, not receiving, so I was on the end of mild spankings as part of our sex life, unsure at first I grew to enjoy it, and encouraged him to go harder and harder, at one point suggesting he use a wooden spoon on my ass, he did once, but then announced he didn’t hold with that level, stating that mild spanking as part of our sex was ok but anything more severe he wasn’t interested in, so we returned to mild spanking, but that just wasn’t enough for me, I craved more, so dishonourably I started looking elsewhere, and slowly built up a pain threshold. So let’s fast forward, I enjoy horse riding, and help out some weekends at a small stables, I don’t have my own horse, but am able to ride some of the horses stabled there, we only have about 4 – 5 horses so very small. One horse in particular belongs to a retired Army Colonel, when I say retired he can only be about 50 ish, he is always teasing and flirting, I just play along to be polite, about 3 years ago, he was there and doing his usual flirting, he must have known I was teasing back because he said, you are a flirt young lady I should take my riding crop and give you a good hiding, I looked at him winked and said “yes please” He then said “ I am serious” I replied so am I”. we chatted some more about it, semed odd chatting in an adult manner about spanking, we agreed it was mutual, her enjoyed spanking or caning, I enjoyed receiving, he had no one to cane, I had no one to cane me, we agreed a trial out the following Saturday when we both knew the owner was away. I had to play with myself several times that week in anticipation, the day arrived and I found myself nervous. We had agreed I wasn’t going to take it on my bare skin, so I had a pair of jeans on, the Colonel arrived and handed me a package, it was a pair of white jodhpurs, he asked me to wear them, apparently it was the white against my black skin that he found alluring, we found a straw bale and went into an empty stable where he asked me to bend over the bale, I am going to enjoy this he said rubbing my ass, he stepped back and said “right young lady, you deserve this” I heard I slight swish and heard rather than felt the slap against my behind, felt nothing at first, then the second swish and slap, a little harder, (felt that) the third came and yes felt that too, not severe but a tingle, the fourth came, he was alternating each cheek, the fifth and I realised I was moaning after each one, the sixth connected, and we both agreed that was enough for a first time. After the third session I was up to ten strokes, these weren’t hard viscious strokes, but enough to make my ass tingle for a few hours, after a few sessions probably 4 months? He asked if I would suck him afterwards, I agreed and did, allowing him to cum in my mouth. Spanking me always makes him hard. We are now at the stage where I allow him to peel down my Jodhpurs and fuck me, I even allow him to verbally abuse me. We progressed very quickly, he bought me a white bikini top, he asked if I had tried tit slapping, I hadn’t but said I would give it ago, again we started off softly, but we soon got to the stage where if he slapped them hard enough they would part company with the bikini top, this would make him even harder, sadly everything comes to an end, as did this, but the seeds were sown, it wasn’t long before my Husband and I parted company, and I got involved in the BDSM scene, I have been shared, tied up in public, had rude words written on my boobs. I have been involved in some severe stuff, that I am not sure this site would allow me to publish,