I have recently descended into the BDSM scene, well the M anyway, let me explain, i am a 31yr old happily married woman, 5'10" blonde with 34d breasts, slim figure, i or should i say we have two children, it started Christmas Eve, me and Gary had been out, didn't stay out late back home around 10pm, (had to put the mince pie out for Santa) well i went straight upstairs to change, Gary came upstairs and caught me in just my skimpy black knickers, he gave my ass a playful slap, well i spose it was playful to him, but given the fact he had had a few beers it was more a resounding slap, of course i spun round and had a go, so he sulked and walked the baby sitter home, whilst he was gone i sat on the edge of the bed and wondered why the salp excited me so much, i had never even thought about that before, well when Gary got back i asked him to slap me again and like a naughty school boy the slap only tickled so i coaxed him to try a little harder, anyway the upshot was i got very turned on, and the sex after !!!!!! well let me say my panties came off in two pieces, thinking it might have been the drink, we have tried sober, and the same affect, to cut a long story short in just less than a month i have gone from playful slapping to wearing leather hot pants whilst my ass is caned, (haven't got round to bare ass caning yet, although i think that will be when and not if) another thing, Gary traced the outling of my cunt with the cane and it sent a shiver up my spine and i wondered how much it would hurt having that caned too. We have discussed sharing the caning with another guy but so far we haven't explored that avenue. I understand this story may be a bit tame, but i am just testing the water so to speak what will readers think? should we explore more? before anyone gets all moral though we have done this with mutual agreement, just looking for opinions i guess