Hi. Just like every guy on here i have always wanted to share my girlfriend. Also like several others on here i have never found the right guy for her at the right time. If i had she might have made my dreams come true. She knows i would love to share her but has always said no. She is 50 but looks 40,is pretty and attractive but refuses to believe that another man could fancy her. She also dislikes most guys crass chat up lines and pushy approaches. Last Friday i moved a little nearer my goal though. We drink in a chain pub in our town after work and i often hope a guy will chat her up but it rarely happens. Me being there usually puts them off. We were in there as usual and had consumed a few drinks. Generally we are gone by seven-ish then its a take away on the way with a dvd indoors. I nipped up to the loo and when i returned there was a guy chatting to her that i vaguely recognised. Wandering over i realised it was a guy she used to work with in her barmaid days. I got him and us a fresh drink and we chatted for a bit. He was stood beside her and as we talked he had his arm on her back. Affectionate but no big deal. Having already had a few pints i soon had to go to the loo again (i know,i put it down to the weather. lol). When i came downstairs i noticed he had both hands on her hips and they were giggling about something or other. I stopped on the stairwell to watch for a second and he seemed very touchy feely without any protest from her. I then returned and we continued chatting. Eventually he said he had to go but before he went he said he had a load of cd's in the car that she/we might like. He now works in the industry so said we can have them if we wanted them. He asked if we wanted to come and get them and before i could answer she said okay,then she looked at me and said i wont be a sec. He said goodbye and they nipped round to the car park. Interest,suspicion,it could either but it got me wondering or perhaps hoping. I asked the guy behind the bar to keep an eye on our drinks for a minute and followed them round the corner. Keeping a distance i could still see them. They made their way to the rear of the car park. He unlocked his car and opened the rear door. She was laughing. Then i saw her lean against the car,he stepped in front of her and they started kissing. It looked like he was kissing her at first then she seemed to respond. He had his hands in her blonde hair. It was only brief,she seemed jumpy and even looked around the car park but she didnt see me. I felt a bit of a prat stood there in case anyone saw me and wondered what i was doing. It had even started raining. I looked around then looked back just in time to see her get in the back of his car. He got in after her. I didnt think i could get any closer without letting them know i was there so i just stood. About two minutes later i saw him exit and stand up by the open door,she didnt appear though. It was about another two minutes before he stepped to one side to let her out. She seemed flustered. He pulled her towards him,she gave him a quick kiss but pulled away and was clearly about to come back to the pub so panicking i quickly made my way back before her. Typically i bumped in to a guy we both know who also works in Rochester near her shop. He naturally wanted to talk and i tried to get away before she caught me up and saw me but it was hopeless. She came round the corner and walked in to us. She looked confused for a sec then we all chatted before making our way back inside the pub. At the bar she immediately asked why i was outside. I said she had been a while so i was about to walk round to see if she was alright,she seemed okay with this. Nothing of the evening was discussed but later that night she was really responsive in bed and came twice very easily. It was very intense. I have never known her lovely pale shaven pussy to be so wet or her breasts to be so sensitive. We even shagged again the next morning with her on top fingering her clit as she came. Thing is,do i wait and see what happens or try and talk to her about it? She has never liked to talk about the subject and is convinced nobody finds her sexy. On the other hand if this guy can revive her sex drive and make her reconsider i dont want to lose track of him. He might be the only chance i get of realising my ambition of knowing she has been with another man.