Several years ago my then partner and I K, decided to have a profile on swinging heaven. We were sexually adventurous together and had experienced a few clubs like Eurekas where we enjoyed playing in front of others and we had a couple of private 3 somes with a 2nd guy and one swap which was a bit of a disaster as we had met in a pub and been invited back to their place but I missed the signal to say my partner wasn;t comforable with the guy. Typical probably too focused on making love to his Mrs. Well it started OK lots of kissing and foreplay in the living room then upstairs to the bedroom but almost as soon as I was inside the female I shot my bolt which wasnt very satisfying for her. Meanwhile my partner was getting well shagged as the guy had a nice size cock but K wasnt enjoying it as she didn't enjoy his kissing and to cap it all she dropped blood on the nice white bed duvet. Oh dear... well we made our excuses and left. That was it until we met another couple for a social and they encouraged us to book into a party in Chichester they were attending.

The evening came and I don't recall we dressed particulatly special had a shower made sure we were clean and tidy. By the time we arrived people seemed to have gathered but no one was playing and we sort of ended up in the kitchen with several others and not knowing the etiquette (is their one) we sort of stood rather awkwardly until a BBW newbie next to me started stroking my head and sating how she liked guys with a shaved head. Well I took that as my cue to feel her bottoom that was covered by a long flowing nylon cloak which she removed to reveal basque and then she grabbed my hand and off we went to the bedroom to get the party started - yes we were the first. What about K I hear you cry well yes once again my caring gene had disappeared into my cock and I hsad disappeared without a backward glance . Yes she was not happy but didnt stand there sulking but grabbed the nearest bloke and joned us in the bedroom. Sadly again she had not struck lucky as he had difficulty getting hard meanwhile I was all over my BBW with not a care in the world. We were joined by a few others some just content to watch and did so the whole evening! It was a real surprise to be at a swinging party and find so many who either sat watching the TV & eathing the food provided or had occasional wanders into the bedrooms to watch the action but never join in. Also a surprise that some stayed in the garden under the gazebo having a smoke & drink but no play.  

Anyway, as others had joined us K's disappointing partner had been replaced by another guy was trying to fuck K's brains out but again didnt seem to be hitting the spot for her and my BBW was being serviced by someone else. I had a little play with the guys partner who was fucking K but she seemed more interested in watching him like a hawk lol and she didn't seemthat keen on anything beyond some soft play with me. Which. was fine so I got up wandered round for a cojuple of minutes till K was finished. We went off to get some grub which was very nice and join the telly watchers in the lounge lol before wandering back into the bedroom where a lesbian romp was going full speed with vibrators & dildo's not K's seen so we started playing with each other and kissing and as the bed was full ended up on top of a load of clothes in the coner of the room. Well it was the best sex of the night lol K gushed and squirted we both got drenched in sweat and juices and had awesome orgasms. 

We hung around for abit afterwards and chatted with folk and got to say they were the friendliest bunch you could imagine and neither of us felt pressured in anyway. Tho' as you cna imagine I got a right bollocking for leaving K in the kitchen on her own!!! Serves me right!

We did ge invited to a New Years party after that which is another story and not a great success either and we slowly started to realise that the best sex we had was between ourselves however it took me a while to learn that.

So the lesson is make sure you have a strong relationship before you start and take it slowly with consideration for each others feelings.