I wrote a story recently and after it was posted I guess it sounded unbelievable. It is probably because I used unfamiliar expressions like "out of state". There was also a comment that found it funny that my wife and her twin sister was the same age. You do have twins in the UK right? Unbelievably but they are the same age. I don't live in the UK and if you haven't picked up the clues I do live in the United States. I live with 3 women. I am married to one but we have a relationship with the other two women. All three women used to work as bargirls in the Philippines. (They came with me to the USA in the year 2000) They are mixed race Filipinas (Spanish-Filapina mixed with Caucasian) in the case of my wife and her twin sister. And in the case of my wifes cousin (Spanish-Filipina mixed with Polynesian-possibly Hawaiian). If you are familiar with South East Asia you would know that many places have quite different attitudes about sex. In particular Thailand (the land of smiles) and the Philippines. If you ask a women out on a date in the Philippines or Thailand there is usually an assumption sex will be included on a first date. The boyfriend-girlfriend relationship is not required before sex. Also in these Asian countries the women seem to keep sex and love seperate. Meaning generally there is a lot less jelousy in relationships if one or both cheat on the other. I have met many bargirls who were married. This means the husband has full knowledge that his wife will regularly be spending the night with another man. But thats not to say all asian women are so casual like this. I have seen some that can get pretty jealous. Also most bargirls have expirience with other girls as many customers select multiple bargirls for the evening. In the Philippines there is also the tendency for a woman to follow the lead of the man. The question "What would you like to do today?" is usually answered "Your the man. You choose." After my first marriage (which is another long story) I was actually looking for a woman who would be OK with swinging. So if you look at it from this perpective my story should not be so unbelievable . I think a story about my first wife may put things into perspective. I was one of those guys in highschool that was trying to fuck every girl in my graduating class, I finally met a "nice" religous girl from another town who did not know my reputation (she was from another town near my hometown). For some stupid reason I thought she was the type of girl that you are suppose to get married to. We actually got engaged before we had sex. She was really a challenge to seduce. I proposed to her just before going into the military and we got married. My first marriage started out OK but over several years it turned into an almost sexless marriage. It became sexless partly from me not adopting her religion and partly from her finding out about my old reputation as a womanizer. She turned out to be not the forgiving type. There was a point before the inevitable divorce that we saw a marriage counselor and he suggested we try to "spice things up". He even suggested swinging. My wife was willing and agreed to try swinging but only if she could fuck around and I would remain faithful. I wasn't really interested in being a cuckold. But for some reason I agreed and we went to a swingers club (in Germany where I was stationed) and then an after club party where I watched her get fucked by several men. Afterward when we got home her attitude was even worse toward me and she actually got mad at me for not trying to stop her. Then she told me she wanted to continue swinging. I was pissed off at the time and said "fine! fuck whoever you want" I hated the "mind games" she was playing when we are trying to make our marriage work . She seemed to get worse. Maybe she was Bi-polar. She did go out with a girlfriend of hers and I actually got some pussy from her when she got home. Anyway I decided to introduce her to some of the other guys in my unit. I actually didn't like her going out to the German clubs and coming home drunk and also I was concerned she would get an STD and pass it to me. This was about 3 months before I was due to leave the military so I stopped caring about our reputation. My wife had a part time job at a concession on the base so she could go there without me. My wife visited the barracks about 4 times a week. They guys would tell me later that she serviced as many as 8 in one evening. One day I went to the barracks at about 10pm when my wife was there. The guys at CQ (charge of quarters desk) told me what room she was in and also that another service member wife was in another room. I went to that other room and the guys let me butt in line and I sampled the first strange pussy I had in years. When I was putting on a condom I mentioned that I haven't fucked anyone but my wife in years. She then said to me "so your clean then. you may as well not use that" (refferring to the condom). I entered her missionary syle but after a few minutes it seemed to turn from just sex into lovemaking with a lot of passionate kissing. I think both her and I were missing that in our marriages. Afterward I stayed inside her for about 10 minutes while cuddling. I then went to the room my wife was in and she was just laying on her back with her eyes closed. The guys were lined up and going one after the other. All seemed to be using condoms. I watched for about ten minutes and then left. On the way out I met a female coworker who started to flirt with me but I was her supervisor and declined at the time. (I did hook up with her just days before I left the military.) I was at home in bed when my wife arrived and we had sex again. The thing is she would never want to have sex until after she was already fucked by someone else. The last vacation we took together before I left the service was in the Canary Islands and we rented a jeep to go to a clothing optional beach. There was 2 men and 2 woman playing naked volleyball nearby. One of the men came over and started talking (maybe Italian) and then switched to english. After a while we went to a circle of rocks that was built like a small waist high wall and I watched her get fucked first by one guy and then by the other while the other girls took turns sucking me off. My wife wanted me to re-enlist but I got out and she came back to the states with me and we seperated and got divorced a year later. I don't know if it was my refusal to keep getting sexual "leftovers" or her refusal to give me anything else but seconds, but I never spoke to her again after the divorce.