When we were younger my wife & I had a lot of fun. Met with guys for MMF's and met x2 Couples. All good experiences in their own right. Like minded ppl. We found mmf easier to arrange. I loved seeing my wife being fucked, riding or sucking and receiving pleasure I loved to see and hear it on her. Plus she is very good in bed. Asian background, I am white. Together 20 years now. Some of the mmf guys we saw a few times after the first meet. This lasted for 3 or 4 years. We had children x2 in 18 months so basically after that, no more swinging. I miss it. The social side too. Being with like minded folk and some you connect very good with not just a fuck, others it's just a cock, fuck that's it. That's all part of it. My wife is now mid 40's menopausal with hot flushes, headaches etc. Not into scene now. She is not a 30 year old child free sex vixen anymore. Been together 20 years my god did we get up to stuff. Very wild. I just miss it. Impossible to accommodate now, kids are not far off teens. What this means for me is no mmf (with my wife which I loved) and not allowed to go meet a couple on here without her. So, it's a tough one. Someone else telling you what you can and cant have. Make the most of it while you can. People change, their health, their outlook. What they did in their past means nothing much to them now. We entertained here at home, went to hotels for meets. Walked down my drive and thought this week my god if those walls could talk.