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do we raise chatroom issues such as abuse in here
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It has been provided as it was felt that there needed to be a place for Chatroom Users to leave messages, for each other and for admin.
ty jon much appreciated.
note to self
READ THE FECKIN FORUM B$ MAKING TIT OF MYSELF ffs :shock:
Any particular problem you have in mind?? Just on my mission to help today!
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i asked the question in another thread but got no reply
do we post in here to raise the issue of any rule breaking or abuse in chat.
kids on cam,
womans profile clearly a male member. etc
or do we trail the chatrooms for an op
I started to reply to your other post about this ................... then realised I had to go and pick the kids up!!! :eeek: :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
The system hasn't changed - you either report it to an Op or contact admin. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/abuse.html
This Forum, like the rest of the site, is not for Naming and Shaming!!! :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
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It has been provided as it was felt that there needed to be a place for Chatroom Users to leave messages, for each other and for admin.
oh feck how confused am i lol
I guess the admin part means problems with the actual chatroom, not the users....
Yup, abuse goes through the usual channels, as Sarge stated - naming and shaming is not allowed ANYWHERE in the site.
hiya
noticed in the last cpl of posts it has been stressed that naming and shaming is def not allowed ??
can any one explain as to why this is ??
or is it a case of as long as yer pays yer money,, you can waste anybodys time ??
would have thought the paying genuine cpls /singles would get some kind of protection /reproach from the timewasters??
alan rach xxx
noticed in the last cpl of posts it has been stressed that naming and shaming is def not allowed ??
can any one explain as to why this is ??
or is it a case of as long as yer pays yer money,, you can waste anybodys time ??
would have thought the paying genuine cpls /singles would get some kind of protection /reproach from the timewasters??
alan rach xxx
Sex God
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hiya
noticed in the last cpl of posts it has been stressed that naming and shaming is def not allowed ??
can any one explain as to why this is ??
Naming and shaming is not allowed for one reason - malicious intent.
Say for example you fell out with someone in a room, in your private life, where ever.
Potentially you could then come on here and start slagging them off to all and sundry.
Some accusations may be totally and utterly untrue, but once they are in the public domain for all to see, not only can it damage someone reputation beyond repair, it may also get the site and it's members into trouble in regard to slander etc.
If you have any probs with a member, please pm one of the mods or op's and we will deal with it.
Don't do it on here - ever :shock:
TJ
ok
example
stood up 3 times by one guy?? 1st time genuine reason for not showing 2nd time slightly more dubious reason ?? 3rd time no reason whatsoever
3 days later cpl complain of being let down bythe same guy....
last night we watch the same said guy arrange to meet another unknowing cp,,l knowing full well he aint gonna turn up
how do we deal with this one then ??
alanrach xxxxx
example
stood up 3 times by one guy?? 1st time genuine reason for not showing 2nd time slightly more dubious reason ?? 3rd time no reason whatsoever
3 days later cpl complain of being let down bythe same guy....
last night we watch the same said guy arrange to meet another unknowing cp,,l knowing full well he aint gonna turn up
how do we deal with this one then ??
alanrach xxxxx
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ok
example
stood up 3 times by one guy?? 1st time genuine reason for not showing 2nd time slightly more dubious reason ?? 3rd time no reason whatsoever
3 days later cpl complain of being let down bythe same guy....
last night we watch the same said guy arrange to meet another unknowing cp,,l knowing full well he aint gonna turn up
how do we deal with this one then ??
alanrach xxxxx
you gave the guy a third chance......even though you were having your doubts?
Sex God
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ok
example
stood up 3 times by one guy?? 1st time genuine reason for not showing 2nd time slightly more dubious reason ?? 3rd time no reason whatsoever
3 days later cpl complain of being let down bythe same guy....
last night we watch the same said guy arrange to meet another unknowing cp,,l knowing full well he aint gonna turn up
how do we deal with this one then ??
alanrach xxxxx
you gave the guy a third chance......even though you were having your doubts?
:thumbup:
I would'nt have bothered even the second time........mind you not looking for a guy, so 1st time would'nt have been an option either.
Love
FIRE xxx
Sex God
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how do we deal with this one then ??
alanrach xxxxx
Simple - you can't. You just have to put it down to experience and move on.
However, there is nothing to stop you "advising" people by pm that you think someone is a timewaster . . . . . BUT just because he let you down, it doesn't necessarily follow that he will let everyone down so do be careful of what you say
Sadly this sort of site will always attract such people - wannabe's who live in a fantasy world and will never, ever meet anyone.
They get their kicks out of making the arrangement itself, knowing them won't go through with it. No doubt it gives them a feeling of power to have control over the situation in that way.
Sad little individuals who probably spend their time wanking with filthy hands and half chewed finger nails over cheap porn
Don't give them further satisfaction of knowing how rattled you are. Believe me, they're just not worth it ;-)
TJ
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Being new (Have I said that before? surely not... I don't repeat myself that much do I?), it's been a great comfort to know that when I'm in chat, there are some people who will whisper and say if someone has a tendency to be pushy/ annoying/ offensive/ whatever if the said person is talking to me. It means that I can be a bit more wary of the things I say, although I take it as advice rather than set in stone that the person will be like that all the time.
It's just nice to know that there are some people out there that care about us new people to give us that helpful advice so people don't get the wrong impression of the site as a whole.
Naming and shaming is a bad thing, but helpful advice and quiet comments are appreciated. It happened recently, and I'm grateful to the little angel who watches over me (you know who you are)
It's just nice to know that there are some people out there that care about us new people to give us that helpful advice so people don't get the wrong impression of the site as a whole.
Naming and shaming is a bad thing, but helpful advice and quiet comments are appreciated. It happened recently, and I'm grateful to the little angel who watches over me (you know who you are)
Sex God
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on another swinging site there is a kind of feedback system, is there no way that this could be looked at ?
of course i think it would be better if a mod or op was appointed to look at he feedbacks and poss discuss issues with people.
i think feedback would be good for the site.
think it has been looked at several times hun! search button is your friend............
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never used the search button or neither do i know how to work it
any lessons gratefully recieved
The search button is at the top of each page - try it!!
:? :lol: :lol: :lol: Failing that, here is the link: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/27234.html
