We are a genuine couple trying to to establish good relations with people with a view to possible meets and further fun. However, of late, the chatrooms to have become an inhospitable wasteground of single males who are after a quick cam wank and nothing else... Nobody says hello anymore unless you have your cam on and tits out, and the chat itself isn't great for actually getting to know people. We have been on this site for sometime now and have really enjoyed it - it's just of late it is becoming more and more difficult to meet genuine, like minded people and have a laugh. Are we alone feeling like this?
Well I often find a conversation to get in on so am afraid I can't agree with you. Maybe it would be worth you finding a local room and sticking to it for a while. Sometimes it seems hard work to get yourself welcomed into a room but it can be worth it if you stick it out :thumbup:
Hi Dawnie, Dont get us wrong - we are able to make conversations with people all the time in rooms, however none are of any real substance. We have run succesful rooms in here from time to time, however just feel lately it is becoming increasingly difficult to actually meet genuine people.
Well I often find a conversation to get in on so am afraid I can't agree with you.
People are always nice to Mods You reckon ???? You should see my inbox on this site then :giggle: I said people Steve... not the idiots who occasionally frequent the chatrooms
I have to agree in some ways i have been in the chat room many times and had conversation with people i know but as soon as i put the cam on every guy in there seems to chat and when i turn the cam off they stop lol But all that proves it who ther ones who are genually after a meet are and tho who arn't so i see it as a good way to sort out those who are after the same as me and those who arn't
I must admit....whenever I go into a chatroom - I get a polite hello after saying hi ........... .......... And then the people that already know each other get on with their conversations... And if you're not super quick on the keyboard it's very hard to interject and try and join in! ...... So after a few minutes of trying - I tend to just read other peoples comments and then head back to the forum ..........where I can take my time reading posts and respond in a more thougt out and articulate manner..... And where I fel I can slowly get to know what people are like - with a view to engaging in conversation if ever I meet them at a munch. (hopefully - if they've read my posts and profile .....lol) The cafe also allows me to see opinions and views of people who may not be 'in my target zone' but whom nevertheless I find interesting and would love to converse with - without any sexual intent! There's my tupence worth on the subject......lol
I've not been here very long, but these chatrooms are infinately better than some, which descend into a morass of terrible ads for websites and utter rubbish. I have actually managed to hold 1 or 2 conversations on here They're tricky things, chatrooms. The more people are in them, the harder it gets to have a coherent correspondance with someone - you tend to end up with a variety of conversations all going on at once, which gets confusing. And you often need superhuman typing skills to get your response in at the right time, before it ends up 6 lines down and makes no sense! And don't be so hard on us single males! Some of us are genuinely trying to meet people, and are prepared to put the gorundwork in to meet and get to know people first - we're not all looking for cam wanks and the like, its just that we seem to outnumber everyone else by about 10-1, so any women with a cam link naturally get all the attention. Often, via email and the forum is better for getting a sense of what someone is about, I reckon.
Well I often find a conversation to get in on so am afraid I can't agree with you.
People are always nice to Mods But I don't always chat as a mod But your reputation preceeds you Dawnie! and the Star helps too!! :giggle: Star ?? Is that what it is ? I thought it was a fecking target
Well I often find a conversation to get in on so am afraid I can't agree with you.
People are always nice to Mods But I don't always chat as a mod But your reputation preceeds you Dawnie! and the Star helps too!! :giggle: Star ?? Is that what it is ? I thought it was a fecking target i second that minxy
as a newbie to the chat rooms but not to the scene I find it differicult as the existing groups are all mates and as a single male they don't really want to chat.
We're new on s/h & as for chat rooms, peeps say hi & then end of chat, most of the time it revolves around which ever ladies are on cam, to tell them how lovely they are ( & we agree), but that means end of conversation. :shock:
Hi Thot I would get involved in this debate. I have been a member for a few years now and i have saw most new ppl come and go in the chatrooms,basically what is happening is,in my opinion they are not chatting. Try and strike up a "friendship" with at least one person and talk about something interesting or be funny,most ppl like funny comments but be aware that humour tends to vary from region to region. I am a chat room ops and I try and talk to ppl in the rooms but because I have a yellow star it makes ppl take a step back I think,so I use my so called humour and good maners to try and make them feel at ease,sometimes it works and sometimes I get abuse but at least I make the effort to chat. Don't get much feedback that ppl like my approach or if they would prefer an ops to be standofffish but this is my personality and it is just me,take me as you find me or tell me to bugger off So thats my advice for what it is worth, try and chat because they are chat rooms after all :wink: best regards woo
Quote by David_jenkins as a newbie to the chat rooms but not to the scene I find it differicult as the existing groups are all mates and as a single male they don't really want to chat.
If you are not new,them you know that you have to overcome 'single male syndrome',wherever you go - you dont know the experiences of the people you are trying to talk to when they have previously met/spoken to a single guy,so you know you must be prepared to overcome some understandable prejudices put in place by a previous single guy who was shall we say behaved less than perfect!! I would also say that 'patience is a virtue',which not being new to the scene must come as no surprise,the chatroom is no different to all those wet lonely isolated carparks you have sat in over the years waiting for some dogging action,or the clubs you have stood in having paid a large entrance fee and the only female you have spoken to is the barmaid or the hooker in disguise wanting to charge you for a quickie out the back! The chatroom does give that ability to have an 'instant chat' with someone,but it is in no way an instant fix......You can only see your message board that shows general chats and your whispers,and it can be moving very slowly you cannot see the message board of ,the person you are saying hello to,and if they are a couple or a lady in a room of mainly single guys its odds on it is whizzing with whispers,and they will have trouble keeping up with it,just recently I have seen people log off the site becauseof the whispering in rooms that the host was not keeping an eye on properly. Also whilst you are in the chatroom,you might not be getting spoken back to,but people will notice how you conduct yourself,and if you start shouting because you dont get a reply from someone,you will get noticed for all the wrong does take time,and my advice would be to stick with it and always be polite.......manners cost nothing and are worth a fortune as my nan used to say lol (she said that would come in handy one day) Your profile is very important,as when you start chatting to people,before they click and get in a conversation with you,they will check out your profile,your pics and your ads,if it has no pics,says nothing then no matter what you say in the chatroom,people will rarely be is plenty of threads on profile building to help you out if you need it (btw,yes I know mine is not perfect!!),and face pics/full body shots,get viewed between 3 and 5 times more than cock shots. So I would say,have patience,have manners,people will see who you are and what you are about after a bit of time and things will open up, and dont take it personally if you are are many many single guys on here and those looking for us can afford to be picky...we can just hoope that one of them picks us Good luck in the rooms...stick with it,its worth it!
Indeed it is. I'm sure most single guys are jealous of the attention us women get in the chat rooms, but when you're sitting there trying to have several conversations with a few people you know in the room, a couple of people who are new and you're trying to make them feel welcome and being polite (in the first instance) to the people who whisper to you without asking first, it does all get a bit much. And when the level of conversation fired at you is 'when are you putting your cam on?' and 'what clour knickers are you wearing?' it does make you wonder what the point is. For all those guys who march from one room to another, announcing themselves by 'hot horny 30 male who wants it now' and are indignant at the lack of replies, I'd say would that work down the pub? Sit with us a bit, have a chat about anything other than sex for the first five minutes and chill. H.x
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