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Now that i seem to have a reputation for being controversial (unintentionally i might add), lets see what you all make of this:
ive been in the chat rooms for a few weeks now and noticed that the majority or people set the cam angle so their faces cant be seen.
I think its amusing that people have no inhibitions with showing the most private of body parts and sexual actions yet wont show a face.
In the animal kingdom, the primates/humans are different to all other species because of our facial expressions and the importance they have on communication, hence the opposition to muslim women wearing a full veil.
Humans are also fairly unusual in as much its the female of the species who puts on a show by the use of makeup and clothing where as with animals its the male who has the bright plumage
Why? Wheres the shame of showing your face? Sex isnt dirty, neither is keeping company with others, and as a mate used to say, if your doing something you cant tell others about, you shouldnt be doing it.
I think a lot of people get a buzz out of displaying on cam but dont really want to be recognised...
Think its more about privacy and autonomy more than anything else smile
Ditto those people up there.
My knockers could pass for anyones- my face is pretty exclusive!
Thems the breaks confused
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Ditto those people up there.
My knockers could pass for anyones- my face is pretty exclusive!
Thems the breaks confused

Looking at the avatar I would say they stood out quite well winch :rascal:
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Now that i seem to have a reputation for being controversial (unintentionally i might add), lets see what you all make of this:
ive been in the chat rooms for a few weeks now and noticed that the majority or people set the cam angle so their faces cant be seen.
I think its amusing that people have no inhibitions with showing the most private of body parts and sexual actions yet wont show a face.
In the animal kingdom, the primates/humans are different to all other species because of our facial expressions and the importance they have on communication, hence the opposition to muslim women wearing a full veil.
Humans are also fairly unusual in as much its the female of the species who puts on a show by the use of makeup and clothing where as with animals its the male who has the bright plumage
Why? Wheres the shame of showing your face? Sex isnt dirty, neither is keeping company with others, and as a mate used to say, if your doing something you cant tell others about, you shouldnt be doing it.
That's ridiculous! Not everyone can tell people they are swingers! :shock:
Because you might get recognised? I wouldn't show my face to any Tom, Dick or Harry basically because I don't want anyone to know I'm here! My line of work before study dictated I could not be seen to be here, and my line of work when I qualify will dictate that also... so for me it's not about thinking sex is dirty, it's about not wanting to anyone to see my face, they can see my arse of course! :shock: did I really say that? redface
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and as a mate used to say, if your doing something you cant tell others about, you shouldnt be doing it.

Gemini..........are you open to eveyone about your membership here or do you just keep it to the people that you know you can trust?
I only ever show my face on cam but I only do it in certain rooms where I can monitor who is in there.
Surely you can understand that discersion is a big part of this site and that some people may not want to show their faces to total strangers who may turn out to be their neighbour........
OK, so the consensus is privacy.
So why is there such a strong feeling in Britain against a section of society covering their faces when they go out in public.
Surely they are entitled to privacy too?
Gemini..........are you open to eveyone about your membership here or do you just keep it to the people that you know you can trust?
Yes im open, i tell some who might be interested in swinging and im happy to admit to others if they were to ask.
I wonder what the percentage of swingers to adulterers is?, both are flip sides of the same coin?, yet adultery goes on in much higer numbers, so why would anyone want to condemn a self confesed swinger?
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OK, so the consensus is privacy.
So why is there such a strong feeling in Britain against a section of society covering their faces when they go out in public.
Surely they are entitled to privacy too?

That's completely different, and you know it. That is about religion and a different topic entirely. Our culture requests these people show their faces ie., passports, teaching. You don't have to for swinging!
I wonder what the percentage of swingers to adulterers is?, both are flip sides of the same coin?, yet adultery goes on in much higer numbers, so why would anyone want to condemn a self confesed swinger?

That's the second time you've associated swinging and adultery in the same context. Completely different.
My OVER SIMPLIFIED take on the two things.
Swinging is based on trust and openness.
Adultery is based on lies and duplicity.
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...so why would anyone want to condemn a self confesed swinger?

Why do you still hear people down the pub calling women "slappers"?
Why do so many people outside of the scene still think swinging is 'wife-swapping' and everyone throws their car keys in a bowl on the table?
In the 'public eye' is there a still a difference between being a single person saying "I meet people for sex" and being a couple and saying "I watched my Mrs get shagged by another man last night" ?
Why are there so many guys who come onto a swingers site expecting every woman to be 'up for it'?
Why do tabloids still feel it is a worthy story to expose the swinging scene?
When did society adjust it’s values and beliefs and begin to say that swinging is a perfectly natural and acceptable behaviour?
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The chatroom lounge appears to be fading away :shock:
Is it because all the interesting threads that get posted there are very quickly moved into the cafe and all the interesting chat related threads posted in the cafe are left where they are ??? dunno

It could be because the chatroom lounge was set up to discuss chatroom issues and not for general chat, which is why we have a Cafe. The clues to these may be in the titles of the forums:
The Cafe - General discussion and chit-chat. Post anything here that is NOT a Meet Up or about Dogging. Use the sections below for those.
The Chatroom Lounge - General discussion for all things related to the swingers chatroom. Use The Cafe for general chit-chat, this forum is specifically for the video chat room.
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Its a privacy thing obviously....they don't want the world to see them up there on cam and recognise them in their daily lives - but get a kink out of showing their bodies to everyone!
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Quote by Geminifemale
Now that i seem to have a reputation for being controversial (unintentionally i might add), lets see what you all make of this:
ive been in the chat rooms for a few weeks now and noticed that the majority or people set the cam angle so their faces cant be seen.
I think its amusing that people have no inhibitions with showing the most private of body parts and sexual actions yet wont show a face.
In the animal kingdom, the primates/humans are different to all other species because of our facial expressions and the importance they have on communication, hence the opposition to muslim women wearing a full veil.
Humans are also fairly unusual in as much its the female of the species who puts on a show by the use of makeup and clothing where as with animals its the male who has the bright plumage
Why? Wheres the shame of showing your face? Sex isnt dirty, neither is keeping company with others, and as a mate used to say, if your doing something you cant tell others about, you shouldnt be doing it.

What happens if your boss is also a member?? Showing your face could be your
I wouldn't SHOW my face on my profile, cos I comes from a well known family hence I wanted my life private as much as possible.
I only go dogging at "nights" so no one can "see" me properly. I sometimes go dogging at daylights as long as the people I know are discreet.
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The chatroom lounge appears to be fading away :shock:
Is it because all the interesting threads that get posted there are very quickly moved into the cafe and all the interesting chat related threads posted in the cafe are left where they are ??? dunno

No - it is because some people can't understand the concept that Chat related issues go into the Chatroom Lounge!! wink
Just moving this one!! lol :lol: :lol:
Also I notice nobody has mentioned that people could in theory record your 'show' or just take screen shots.
Would I want my face on cam whilst I'm doing something sexual - no way!
thing is u never know whos watching u lol if your on cam and the woman who buys the paper in the corner shop every morning when you go in is on there chances are she not know its you by your naked body parts.
I show my face on cam have have been stopped in the streets twice now by people off here who have recognised me as i go in the mids room where a lot of local people go, one time i was with my daughter so it does pay to be careful and not show your face, its just personal choice
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thing is u never know whos watching u lol if your on cam and the woman who buys the paper in the corner shop every morning when you go in is on there chances are she not know its you by your naked body parts.
I show my face on cam have have been stopped in the streets twice now by people off here who have recognised me as i go in the mids room where a lot of local people go, one time i was with my daughter so it does pay to be careful and not show your face, its just personal choice

So whats the excuse for not getting ya boobies out dunno
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thing is u never know whos watching u lol if your on cam and the woman who buys the paper in the corner shop every morning when you go in is on there chances are she not know its you by your naked body parts.
I show my face on cam have have been stopped in the streets twice now by people off here who have recognised me as i go in the mids room where a lot of local people go, one time i was with my daughter so it does pay to be careful and not show your face, its just personal choice

So whats the excuse for not getting ya boobies out dunno
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i have crap boobs so keep them covered lol