seem to suit me more. My fiery temperament coupled with misunderstandings online just stress me out.
Plus it feels as though there's an impenetrable wall between newbies and SOME regulars or is that just me?
I think I may be done with chat rooms.
Does anyone else feel the same?
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Heck no groundhog, I think your little sortie into the chatroom earlier today went down well. In fact I was quite surprised, when I peeked at your profile, (not to mention quite pleased with the pics.) to see that you are a relative newbie. Please don't desert us in the chatroom. Most of the members who chat in the pool are fairly longstanding regulars, but an ok bunch on the whole, and will be happy to offer advice to you if ever you feel the need to ask. I look forward to chatting sometime soon.
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seem to suit me more. My fiery temperament coupled with misunderstandings online just stress me out.
Plus it feels as though there's an impenetrable wall between newbies and SOME regulars or is that just me?
I think I may be done with chat rooms.
Does anyone else feel the same?
Ahh hush, I thought you had it sussed? you did ok, it's just them voices you keep hearing.
But don't be silly, just crack on as you did, you'll be fine.
( just dont fall for skinners reverse psychology chat up lines, he really does want his dishes washing)
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( just dont fall for skinners reverse psychology chat up lines, he really does want his dishes washing)
:lol2:
groundhogday_1 re. newbie-regular block: I remember one particular time when I was a wide-eyed newbie taking it all in. It was a late night/early morning (ie. middle of the night!) in the pool, but there were quite a few people about on camera dressed up. I asked the one that had caught my eye if I could whisper. They replied that they only whisper to people they know! I took it to heart! It made no sense - how can you get to know anybody if you only talk to people you know? So I just had to ask my question in the room instead, and some friendlier couple explained they were all back from a social (so basically after-party chitchat focused on the people that had just met). There was no way I could have been included in this. But for every person that is already sorted in their connections, there are two more looking to expand. So again, just talk to the ones that are receptive! And I've changed my mind about the no whispers from strangers rule. I now also ONLY whisper with friends, and those that will become friends ;)
As for the forum being a better fit... What's your aim here? I don't know how others fair but personally I've yet to find a play partner off the forum
It's like trying to pull in a cafe versus a club! 
Sex God
A lot depends on which room you're in, and what time of day. Some are packed and fast, and it can be hard for new people to find a space. Others are more relaxed. Some can even be welcoming and friendly. It's worth having a bit of a look around before giving up on them.
