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We have only been members for a matter on months and are already becoming increasing frustrated with the amount of fake people on this site. We see a profile from a "couple" from our town that is obviously a very lonely bored single male acting up. This guy was trying to pass off pictures of a Big Brother contestant as his Mrs and now this has changed to a file photo we have seen in many of places. I raised my concerns with SH but NOTHING has been done. I guess as long as SH collect there membership fee's they really don’t care what goes on in this place.
We have visited clubs and discussed SH with many people who are seemingly hitting the same problems as us. Everybody seems of the same opinion that when you REALLY break it down it’s a split of approx 90% single men with the other split between couples and woman. What makes it worse is that out of all these men about half of them will run a mile or never turn up should you arrange something.
Our suggestion to this place is a feedback scoring system. If you were let down like we have been you should be able to leave feedback suggesting so. If you have a meeting with these people and they are who they say they are and they are genuine you should be able to say so with the same going for cam fun. I believe that just the deterrent of this would be a great positive step for SH although I am sure memberships and fees would drop so I guess we will never see this happen!!!
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We have only been members for a matter on months and are already becoming increasing frustrated with the amount of fake people on this site. We see a profile from a "couple" from our town that is obviously a very lonely bored single male acting up. This guy was trying to pass off pictures of a Big Brother contestant as his Mrs and now this has changed to a file photo we have seen in many of places. I raised my concerns with SH but NOTHING has been done. I guess as long as SH collect there membership fee's they really don’t care what goes on in this place.
We have visited clubs and discussed SH with many people who are seemingly hitting the same problems as us. Everybody seems of the same opinion that when you REALLY break it down it’s a split of approx 90% single men with the other split between couples and woman. What makes it worse is that out of all these men about half of them will run a mile or never turn up should you arrange something.
Our suggestion to this place is a feedback scoring system. If you were let down like we have been you should be able to leave feedback suggesting so. If you have a meeting with these people and they are who they say they are and they are genuine you should be able to say so with the same going for cam fun. I believe that just the deterrent of this would be a great positive step for SH although I am sure memberships and fees would drop so I guess we
will never see this happen!!!

Why is it that everyone who doesnt get almost instant sucsess starts moaning about timewasters and single male wannabee's rolleyes
Use the search facility and search for verification and see exactly why the idea stinks like a pile of rotting compost.....
Were not asking for instact success and we have had quite a few meets with some very nice men and couples… BUT we have experinced some real morons on this place and would suggest that there be a tool to weed out all the timewasters and single men acting as females/couples. We agree that its such a shame for all the genuine well intended blokes out there but a verification tool would only inhanse genuine single guys credentials so I really can not see a problem.
Think of it like this – If a police officer pulled you over and asked to a take a breath sample you would happily give one safe in the knowledge that you have not touched a drink however if you were drinking… makes you think those in favour OK but those not maybe have something to hide?
Verification will not take place on this site and has been discussed very thoroughly. It has absolutely diddly squat to do with money in any way, shape of form.
If you have submitted a complaint about someone's profile, with evidence, then let me know and i'll try and discover what the problem was.
Whinging in the open forum does not endear you to anyone and as this has been thoroughly discussed, even very recently, there is no need to keep this thread open.
any problems, please PM me.
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