Hi to everyone reading this.....
We are genuine swingers and both enjoy swapping partners and having a good time as well as a little chat to get to know each would ideally like to meet a couple we get on with for regualr meets......
What we dont like is all the endless talk about swinging in general and no action!!! We continually go into chat rooms, post meets to see if people wish to meet but for some reason they would rather talk about bargains they have just got in primark!! to us this is bizarre why use a swingers chat room and talk about shopping!! We point this out in a chat room and get slated for it. I understand people like the social aspect of swinging and we dont have anything against this but we would rather just play and then get called names for it one being 'go pay a prositute' BY well as we arent allowed to name YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.... Well that aint swinging to us im afraid maybe it is to her!!!
Anyway babbling over just wanna know if there are any swinging cpls out there that would like to meet up with out all the endless small chat!!!!
p.s ITS OUR OPINION SO DONT BE OFFENDED
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Is it so wrong?????
Sex God
Quote by sucknfucknw
we did say some chat to get to know people just not endless chat.... In clubs tho there is oftend no chat had so why cant this be the case over the net to meet a cpl??????
If you'd rather just play and you know that happens in clubs, why not just go to clubs?
Master of Sex
we use the chatrooms regularly...ok all the time ...and we use it for the purpose it has been set up for....to chat .......if the chatrooms were solely about meeting and shagging ....then it would be predominatly full of single males, with a few couples...because in my opinion...if you could only talk about meeting up and sex in the chatrooms ...alot of people would stop using them
Sex God
Its a chatroom....
People use it to chat
There is no stipulation as to what the subject matter needs to be...
People use it to chat
There is no stipulation as to what the subject matter needs to be...
Because Freckledbird we prefer private meets and due to working every weekend not all clubs that we wish to attend are open!!!
And Mr-cream123 i did state we dont mind some chat just bizzare why no one ever chats about meeting. PLus we never talk about sex in any chat rooms as we dont want the singles getting off on it as some will (not all before that causes offence)We state everything that we like sexually on our profile so there is no need to repeat this. We have many a time opened up chatrooms specifically to meet now as we know that just chitchat goes on in the "click" rooms which is fine if thats what you want ( again no offence to be taken just our opinion) But when we do open these specific rooms the chit chatters and non meeters take over and again when we state that this room is for arranging meets we get slagged off so again IS IT SO wrong for us to try arrange meets this way i think not!!
And Mr-cream123 i did state we dont mind some chat just bizzare why no one ever chats about meeting. PLus we never talk about sex in any chat rooms as we dont want the singles getting off on it as some will (not all before that causes offence)We state everything that we like sexually on our profile so there is no need to repeat this. We have many a time opened up chatrooms specifically to meet now as we know that just chitchat goes on in the "click" rooms which is fine if thats what you want ( again no offence to be taken just our opinion) But when we do open these specific rooms the chit chatters and non meeters take over and again when we state that this room is for arranging meets we get slagged off so again IS IT SO wrong for us to try arrange meets this way i think not!!
Sex God
Quote by sucknfucknw
IS IT SO wrong for us to try arrange meets this way i think not!!
It definately is NOT wrong to arrange meets this way. We all have our own way of arranging meets, and we all like to meet different kinds of people. Its that difference what makes this place so bloody addictive.
Personally, I say whatever works for you, then go for it (just make sure you enjoy it as well) :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by sucknfucknw
Because Freckledbird we prefer private meets and due to working every weekend not all clubs that we wish to attend are open!!!
And Mr-cream123 i did state we dont mind some chat just bizzare why no one ever chats about meeting. PLus we never talk about sex in any chat rooms as we dont want the singles getting off on it as some will (not all before that causes offence)We state everything that we like sexually on our profile so there is no need to repeat this. We have many a time opened up chatrooms specifically to meet now as we know that just chitchat goes on in the "click" rooms which is fine if thats what you want ( again no offence to be taken just our opinion) But when we do open these specific rooms the chit chatters and non meeters take over and again when we state that this room is for arranging meets we get slagged off so again IS IT SO wrong for us to try arrange meets this way i think not!!
Not saying it's wrong, but the chat room is a chat room - people chat in it. They don't all want to meet with little or no chat. If people slag you off, boot them out if it's your room - they'll find somewhere else that they can chat about what they want to, surely?
Sex God
Some people like to use chat just for meets, some like to use it to chat. Unfortunately you can't dictate how other people use this function so may be if it's not working for you, you might consider using other areas of the site to arrange meets such as the photo adds etc. At the end of the day it's about finding the best way for you to use the site, not about changing the way others use it. I do hope you find some sort of balance and find what you are looking for. Maybe you need to consider the fact that not everyone just wants a meet there and then without having any interaction beforehand?
Sex God
It isn't wrong... however i am one of the guilty ones who use the chatroom to chat....... i hear the same arguement used agains socials and munches where some people don't like them because there isn't enough playing
I want to be 110% happy before i play with someone, and if that means talking and talking and talking, then that is what I will do......
most of the owner owned rooms tend to be chat based, the regional ones, and the specialist ones tend to have communities within communities...... so just it can seem clicky because you tend to socialise in the same groups again....
would it be any more clicky than going to a local pub where everyone knows everyone...... probably not, but because you are on the outside it seems that way.....
sean
I want to be 110% happy before i play with someone, and if that means talking and talking and talking, then that is what I will do......
most of the owner owned rooms tend to be chat based, the regional ones, and the specialist ones tend to have communities within communities...... so just it can seem clicky because you tend to socialise in the same groups again....
would it be any more clicky than going to a local pub where everyone knows everyone...... probably not, but because you are on the outside it seems that way.....
sean
Sex God
Another thing to think about is people may be talking about meeting but in whisper as talking about meeting in public is not very discreet is it ;-)
Sex God
I can only answer this from our own point of view. We use the chatrooms to chat and it has been, along with the forum the way forward for us to meet and have sex with people that we have made a connection with. How can we know there is a connection with someone if we don't talk to them
speaking only from my on point of i think the chatrooms should be for chat,as it is the first step and how you get to know people,a little example being,i often go into the black for white rooms,and only by chatting,discover the guy i am actualy talking to is white,which is not what i am there for,noe some may say well they should not be there,but they are so imagine if you arranged a meet only to discover,the person is the dead opposite to what you was looking for,
I'm another one guilty of using the chatroom just to chat. My bad. 
Sometimes, I like to chat about sex, sometimes about what I'm having for tea, sometimes I just lurk and perv cams, sometimes - just sometimes - I'm actively seeking to meet but the conversation doesn't take place in the open room. Fancy that, eh?
Sometimes, I like to chat about sex, sometimes about what I'm having for tea, sometimes I just lurk and perv cams, sometimes - just sometimes - I'm actively seeking to meet but the conversation doesn't take place in the open room. Fancy that, eh?
Well we have re joined SH and logged into out local chat room and found the same people sitting there as 9 months ago!!!
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room. We don't actually think they ever swing! The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods! They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room. We don't actually think they ever swing! The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods! They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
Sex God
Quote by Seroxatmad
Well we have re joined SH and logged into out local chat room and found the same people sitting there as 9 months ago!!!
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room. We don't actually think they ever swing! The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods! They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
What a complete and utter load of tripe...
If someone wishes to use their membership by sitting in the chatrooms and chatting then who are you to discourage that ???
Sex God
Quote by Seroxatmad
Well they are always there so i guess they never actually swing...
And thats just an assumption.....
One should never assume anything....
Just as a PS...
Editing your post doesnt make any difference if you've been quoted ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Seroxatmad
One should not, oh golly anyone for tea...
Oh I'm sorry...
Should I speak more clearly and slowly for you ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Cherrytree
Oh I'm sorry...
Should I speak more clearly and slowly for you ;-)
Ooh yes please. Especially if you sound like Barry White. :twisted:
I dont :-(
Quote by kentswingers777
Anyway whats wrong with Primark special offers, i think they are fantasticcccccccccc !!! x x x x xx
Ps - i am extremely guilty of using it to chat - do i get punished??
Nutster x x x
I will punish you, over my knee you naughty girl!!!
Bent ready and waiting, what time we going to primark ??
xx
Master of Sex
Quote by Seroxatmad
Well we have re joined SH and logged into out local chat room and found the same people sitting there as 9 months ago!!!
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room. We don't actually think they ever swing! The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods! They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
i no for a fact that most of what you said is aimed at us ..as we had to endure a good few hrs of you slagging us of in the north east chatroom on thursday night..(yes they were reported to admin).we come on here because ......well i'm not gonna justify why we are on here ....because the day i do that is the day i cancel my account.
Sex God
Quote by Mr-cream123
Well we have re joined SH and logged into out local chat room and found the same people sitting there as 9 months ago!!!
We log in when we want fun.....odd times for chat but these lot must be sit in front of there computers every night just using the chat room. We don't actually think they ever swing! The single guys get flamed for tring to chat with these gods! They sit half dressed then complain about guys directing them!
All the guys we have met - 95% of them say they are treated like crap by these same lot. Yes I get annoyed and it is backed up by the many guys we meet.
Yes its a chat room but on a swing site. If they want virtual friends maybe they should try a general chat room like or Lycos etc. or maybe get a hobby.
i no for a fact that most of what you said is aimed at us ..as we had to endure a good few hrs of you slagging us of in the north east chatroom on thursday night..(yes they were reported to admin).we come on here because ......well i'm not gonna justify why we are on here ....because the day i do that is the day i cancel my account.
Good for you Mr Cream :thumbup:
Sex God
Nobody has to justify to anyone else, why they are here.
