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Less erotic cam shows of recent?

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Unknown User
Back when the video chat first came to this site there was a lot more erotic shows than there is now..
But due to the volume of whispers, directors and other reasons it puts a lot of people of ( thats also why we don't play on cam no more )
Its real nice to get compliments though biggrin
Some tips for them watching them on cam
Feel free to add more!
Compliment them yes, but don't go over the top! saying they are the best on the site ever, it is something they have seen many times and also see the same thing said to everyone else so is a remark that has no substance.
Unless they have specifically asked to be directed ( in a room that is allowed ) then don't direct!
unwanted direction can spoil the fun of the moment, can put the cammers of, make the experience less enjoyable to other viewers and can end the fun as fast as it started.. leave people to do there own thing.
Whispers!
unless they have asked, don't do it, chances are they are to busy to read them anyway and to expect them to stop to read your whisper will just kill it also!
its also a breach of the AUP to whisper without asking first anyway.
Directing can be a hell of a lot of fun.. for them that like it
Some however like to play on cam, take there time and build up to what is going to happen without people telling them to show there whatever! sit back and enjoy the moment, chances are you will see everything you would like anyway, why rush it? would you rush things like this is it was a meet?
Anyway, thats our thoughts only, others that are playing on cam might like to play different.. whoever is playing though, please do treat them with respect and find out what they want before jumping the guns and putting an early end to the "show
Lets get people feeling comfortable enough to play on cam again :twisted:
Shaz n Tony :D
Unknown User
But due to the volume of whispers, directors and other reasons it puts a lot of people of ( thats also why we don't play on cam no more )
Its real nice to get compliments though
read this n couldn't agree more!!...but then it'll probably fall on deaf ears sad
suzi xxx
Marya_Northeast
Sex God
Totally agree with your comments, Shaz n Tony.
I'm more of a flirty flasher than a full on showgirl lol so unwanted directing and whispers puts me off. I do things in my own time and for the element of surprise, not cos I'm a performing seal!
You're spot on about the OTT compliments too. They really do mean fuckall. Being told you're "the best" anything is really cack, and "nice tits" is just sooooo boring,. especially when we all know damn well that they'd be happy to watch ANY tits, regardless.
Unknown User
It can be intimidating to some that don't want to be directed though.
we once watched a young couple on cam, real sexy couple they were and new to the site, they started doing a show, first one ever, lasted about 5 min and swore they would never play on cam again because of the volume of directors.
To affect someone to that extent is just cruel.
I just can't see what the harm is by asking , "can i whisper you" or "do you like being directed" it only takes 2 seconds to ask.. then at least people know if they are helping or hindering!
Tony wink
Lost
Sex God
I like the way this topic reads it seems that common courtesy and good sense should prevail throughout
Unknown User
Until single guys, and that is who does most of the directing, learn not to do it, it will continue.
Mrs777 does go on cam from time to time, but the ammount of vile comments from some, she rarely does it now. As always it is a small minority who continue to do it, but if they know no difference, then they will carry on. As far as the AUP rules go, they cannot even read our advert, and send winks all the time, so the chance of them reading the do's and dont's on this site are pretty much zero!
Until there is a way of blocking certain members, or Swingingheaven taking a much more serious view of it, then am afraid to say, there will be many more people like us, who just refuse to go on cam, which will be a shame for the genuine people who enjoy the cam shows.
naughtynymphos1
Sex God
To be honest i think less people play now on cam than when it was new purely because the novelty has warn off.
naughtynymphos1
Sex God
Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
we once watched a young couple on cam, real sexy couple they were and new to the site, they started doing a show, first one ever, lasted about 5 min and swore they would never play on cam again because of the volume of directors.

now that i cant understand, if im doing 'as show' on cam im to busy doing what im doing to be reading any comments on the pc and to be quite honest if i was shagging someone and they was busier reading any comments than doing their job they'd get a clip round the ear hole anyway lol
naughtynymphos1
Sex God
Quote by flower411
To be honest i think less people play now on cam than when it was new purely because the novelty has warn off.

Bloody Hell !!! Really ?? :shock: :shock:
How long does it take for that to happen ??
lol how do i know dunno but its the same with anyting new isnt it? it all new and exciting but everything gets boring after a while.
Unknown User
We used to show on cam quite a bit, I enjoyed the anonominity (sp?) of it. As everyone else has said tho it started to lose it's appeal when we were reading things like "go on take the slut hard from behine" "make her do this, make her do that", then yes the whispers, the PM's... just got ridiculous.
Nowadays, I'll still cam but on our private email addy with people we know wink
Unknown User
Quote by flower411
To be honest i think less people play now on cam than when it was new purely because the novelty has warn off.

Bloody Hell !!! Really ?? :shock: :shock:
How long does it take for that to happen ??
lol how do i know dunno but its the same with anyting new isnt it? it all new and exciting but everything gets boring after a while.
Yeah !! Mrs f and myself are waiting for the day that we can just snuggle down and go to sleep at night rolleyes
All this shagging on cam is doing my head in !! lol
I've seen ya's before, and you are both very sexy, very erotic and looked very much in love! and I think I commented that to you at the time wink
creative0100
Warming the Bed
totally agree shaz_n_tony.
The missus refused to come on here now as when she does all we get are the retards that don't know the rules and spoil it for her.
Those same people now ask if I pulled the pictures off the net as they haven't seen her yet....
Grrrrrr makes my blood boil it does! mad
dekntan
Sex God
Yeah its off putting and ruins it for the others
They all have a "bit of skin shown on cam" radar
last night t time for instance i went on cam in local room 15 or so in off comes the top then hey presto full room i dont mind some wispers but it gets annoying when they start asking daft things
Unknown User
Quote by naughtynymphos1
we once watched a young couple on cam, real sexy couple they were and new to the site, they started doing a show, first one ever, lasted about 5 min and swore they would never play on cam again because of the volume of directors.

now that i cant understand, if im doing 'as show' on cam im to busy doing what im doing to be reading any comments on the pc and to be quite honest if i was shagging someone and they was busier reading any comments than doing their job they'd get a clip round the ear hole anyway lol
Not all fun on cam consists of hard shagging so you can't see the screen and thats one of the points we are trying to make.
Sometimes, you might just want to sit on cam, have a fiddle with each other or yourselves,
sometimes a bit of oral, or just nude
And hell often just sitting clothed can set people of asking if you are going to get nude, or if they are going to see any skin and so on rolleyes
so unless you are actually "shagging" someone on cam then you are going to be able to read what is said.
But, if people was to just sit back and enjoy with the odd polite comment then i am sure more peeps would have fun.
And yep i think the novelty might of worn of for some of the peeps that have been using cam chat for a while.. but then again, there is also lots of new members that come to the site, only do it a few times then get fed up.
Tony wink