This topic turned up in chat, so I thought it may make an interesting thread , I like forum chat and the forums because I feel that one gets some idea of the personality of the other users through what they say and do so if the chance of playing with those members ever came about I would enjoy it more than maybe a cold meeting with some person whom I would not know anything about, just to have sex then go. I know each has its merits so I wondered what you would prefer and why?