Men wanking on cam?

19 Dec 2008

Lucy these are 2 separate issues tho aren't they. A guy could be wanking or even just showing his face on cam and then decides to whisper uninvited to you or others which is impolite. Conversely a guy could be wanking on cam and not make any attempt to whisper others, without permission, so in that respect he should be free to wank away. Again, as a general comment, this is a sex site after all tho of course should not preclude the use of good manners biggrin

19 Dec 2008

Hello 69 !
All the guys who wank on cam, are free to do so, and I am sure will continue too!!
A quick peep on all who whispered to me, did confirm, it was their cocks they wished me to look at though!
Yes, I do look, one day I may just find one I stay on for more than 2 secs, then it will be back to this post, and maybe a change of opinion!!
Until that day.................

19 Dec 2008

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Hello 69 !
All the guys who wank on cam, are free to do so, and I am sure will continue too!!
A quick peep on all who whispered to me, did confirm, it was their cocks they wished me to look at though!
Yes, I do look, one day I may just find one I stay on for more than 2 secs, then it will be back to this post, and maybe a change of opinion!!
Until that day.................

Lucy take a look at my cam bolt

Dave_Notts

19 Dec 2008

If you don't want to see something then you don't have to look at it.
I think men wanking on cam is exhibisionist for them they may not be doing it for someone elses benefit. If they are then wahey its a result.

19 Dec 2008

Quote by Dave__Notts
Hello 69 !
All the guys who wank on cam, are free to do so, and I am sure will continue too!!
A quick peep on all who whispered to me, did confirm, it was their cocks they wished me to look at though!
Yes, I do look, one day I may just find one I stay on for more than 2 secs, then it will be back to this post, and maybe a change of opinion!!
Until that day.................

Lucy take a look at my cam bolt

Dave_Notts
Dave...if I ever see you on cam I am gonna watch for all 3 minutes......how long does it take you again??? biggrin

19 Dec 2008

Quote by BjBri69
This is first and foremost a sex site - simple as that - yes it is used for all sorts of other reasons, social networking etc and that's great - if anyone doesn't like the cam wanking don't watch simple as !

that last bit i agree with in that if people don't like it, they dont have to watch it... however i do strongly disagee with the first bit
in which case i think this site has then changed, when I first came here it was a swinging site, and I believe there is a fundermental difference, between a swingers site and a sex site..... this place was not the "meat market" other sites were, and if this is what it has become in the eyes of most then we have lost one of the things that made this site unique
mind you when I first came here, we had one chatroom, no cams and everyone just got on with it........
like I said... it is all well and good saying to people dont watch, but it does disrupt the flow of rooms, which is why i would love the choice of choosing between room that do, and rooms that dont, just like people have the choice of going on cam and not.....

19 Dec 2008

Fabio,
You are so on my wave length, it scares me!!
This is after reading several of your responses to posts, not just the ones on this topic!!
Lucys post.

19 Dec 2008

Quote by fabio
This is first and foremost a sex site - simple as that - yes it is used for all sorts of other reasons, social networking etc and that's great - if anyone doesn't like the cam wanking don't watch simple as !

that last bit i agree with in that if people don't like it, they dont have to watch it... however i do strongly disagee with the first bit
in which case i think this site has then changed, when I first came here it was a swinging site, and I believe there is a fundermental difference, between a swingers site and a sex site..... this place was not the "meat market" other sites were, and if this is what it has become in the eyes of most then we have lost one of the things that made this site unique
Hi Fabio - you are right in that perhaps I could have chosen my words more carefully and I certainly didn't mean to imply that this site was a meat market. Infact this is the only site of its nature that I have ever been a member of and am lucky I think in making the right choice. I have gained a lot from this site and the sex now seems to be a happy (albeit infrequent) bi product lol. It's interesting that no one seems to complain about girls pleasuring themselves on cam but that I am sure that has already had been covered in other posts. Again regardless of what people are doing on cam they should observe the rules wanking or not ! BTW I have to agree with Lucy about your other posts :-)

19 Dec 2008

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Hello 69 !
All the guys who wank on cam, are free to do so, and I am sure will continue too!!
A quick peep on all who whispered to me, did confirm, it was their cocks they wished me to look at though!
Yes, I do look, one day I may just find one I stay on for more than 2 secs, then it will be back to this post, and maybe a change of opinion!!
Until that day.................

Lucy take a look at my cam bolt

Dave_Notts
Dave...if I ever see you on cam I am gonna watch for all 3 minutes......how long does it take you again??? biggrin

3 minutes????
I can't triple my time just so you can watch :flounce:
Dave_Notts

20 Dec 2008

Quote by Dave__Notts
Hello 69 !
All the guys who wank on cam, are free to do so, and I am sure will continue too!!
A quick peep on all who whispered to me, did confirm, it was their cocks they wished me to look at though!
Yes, I do look, one day I may just find one I stay on for more than 2 secs, then it will be back to this post, and maybe a change of opinion!!
Until that day.................

Lucy take a look at my cam bolt

Dave_Notts
9?? I love 9.......9 hours that is!!!!
Dave...if I ever see you on cam I am gonna watch for all 3 minutes......how long does it take you again??? biggrin

3 minutes????
I can't triple my time just so you can watch :flounce:
Dave_Notts

25 Dec 2008

Personally, I like to see a nice sexy cock being stroked....unfortunately, there are a lot of ugly misshapen ones poking out from a brillo pad of pubic hairs on show, which kinda ruins the moment!
Seriously guys, shave em, and you'll get a lot more appreaciation from us ladies. xxx

25 Dec 2008

Quote by sara-john
sometimes their face aint the best to look at

Aint it the truth sara :twisted:

27 Dec 2008

well as this is a swinging site i think its ok. I quite like wank cams and i like to see the face of someone im talking to. I think if u dont like it dont look.

1 Jan 2009

a quick flash as a laugh is one thing but continous wanking aint exciting rolleyes

dee

8 Jan 2009

: Men wank on cam,women wank on cam!!!So what?Nobody forces you to watch anything!!
Well thats my opinion anyway rolleyes

8 Jan 2009

I just find wanking on cam dull and turn if off, Id rather see a nice smile.

9 Jan 2009

you don`t have to look lol

17 Jan 2009

With all due respect why do you question people doing "their thing" on a free world and members are on this site to fulfill thier needs, same as you you dont like the fact that most men are exhibitionists then dont watch,I dare say some women(and men)enjoy watching so whats the your problem,who are you to judge??

17 Jan 2009

Quote by potholer
With all due respect why do you question people doing "their thing" on a free world and members are on this site to fulfill thier needs, same as you you dont like the fact that most men are exhibitionists then dont watch,I dare say some women(and men)enjoy watching so whats the your problem,who are you to judge??

I think it is more a case of when and where you do it...
for example........
on monday night there were two rooms open one on top of the other....
one was called 10 inches on cams....
one was called 10pm Monday Night Quiz room....
now which would have been the most sensible to get there cock out and play in?
time and a place........
so people in said quiz room reminded the "wankers" of name of the room...
there is being exhibitionist.. and there is being oppotunistic!
i do think it is a case of some people just not being sensible about it....

17 Jan 2009

Quote by potholer
With all due respect why do you question people doing "their thing" on a free world and members are on this site to fulfill thier needs, same as you you dont like the fact that most men are exhibitionists then dont watch,I dare say some women(and men)enjoy watching so whats the your problem,who are you to judge??

This thread has seemed to of lost the thread of the original posters question!
With respect to all who have typed "well dont look then, if you dont like it".
That response does not fit the question! Do we prefer to see a nice face and smile........well yes I for one do.....but as i am not prepared to show my face, or infact anythnig else on cam, I presume others do not as well!
I have noticed though that the gentlemen who do show more than their cocks seem to get more attention in the rooms than those who are doing stuff up there on their cams!
Really to finish this post, it has to be with the now famous last words on a forum post......each to their own!
smile

Lucys post.

17 Jan 2009

Fabs......you and me both bored then , as we have both returned to this post!
Nice avatar, by the way!

30 Jan 2009

Honestly, there are some great looking cocks out there and I love to see them come. There are some though that just stroke and stroke for hours which can be a bit boring - I like to see them achieve pleasure ;)

31 Jan 2009

Quote by fabio

on monday night there were two rooms open one on top of the other....
one was called 10 inches on cams....
one was called 10pm Monday Night Quiz room....
now which would have been the most sensible to get there cock out and play in?
time and a place........
so people in said quiz room reminded the "wankers" of name of the room...
there is being exhibitionist.. and there is being oppotunistic!
i do think it is a case of some people just not being sensible about it....

does gettin ya tits out on cam to distract the oposition count rolleyes

6 Feb 2009

dose nothing for me much prefare a face

7 Feb 2009

Quote by LeedsTwo
Personally, I like to see a nice sexy cock being stroked....unfortunately, there are a lot of ugly misshapen ones poking out from a brillo pad of pubic hairs on show, which kinda ruins the moment!
Seriously guys, shave em, and you'll get a lot more appreaciation from us ladies. xxx

Exactly. I love watching a nice cock being pumped, turns me on no end! However, the weird shaped dicks surrounded by a clowns wig makes me never want to watch again.
Also hate when they are wearing an old t-shirt and you can see their pile of dirty washing in the background...

11 Feb 2009

If I feel like a good wank then there are about a dozen ladies that appreciate it and positively encourage it - I have added them to my favourites so we can easily join up.
I prefer it in a private room as the number of whispers can get silly and, in a private room, we can both have sound on without silly interruptions.
There are almost as many female wankers as male ones and I am not offended. As has been said just don't watch if you don't like it - I'm sure Blue Peter would welcome a few extra viewers :wanker:

11 Feb 2009

Does any one ever read the original posters question on this thread?????????

11 Feb 2009

Webcams in any sexy sort of way should be for private viewing, having said that I do go and look at the female ones ;)

12 Feb 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
Does any one ever read the original posters question on this thread?????????

Yes but after a few posts it becomes a debate with broader themes.
I could name at least a dozen ladies who like to watch men wank and they never ask for face shots.