Mid''s room...and the tolerance of people.

11 Dec 2007

one of the things about posting in here furbs is getting used to folk making implications about your intent, taking a snip of what you say and using that part in a sense you never meant, sometimes to enforce their point sometimes just because they want to be argumentative, sometimes it will drive you to distraction , don't let it bother you, like I said in chat yesterday, who gives a fuck, the importance put on this place by some is way off the scale, its just a website full of bollox, if it disappeard tomorrow folk would move on within a day or two, in fact the only people it would really hurt are those that need the importance of being someone..something they get from here..
von you can't argue with your sentiments the aup doesn't allow it, no matter what folk want that's the rules of chatrooms her, big thread for not a lot isn't it?
staggy
xx

11 Dec 2007

Quote by FurbyHug
I didnt say it was a chat ONLY room... i said its more of a chatting room than the others, like ive said in the past i like watching cams i enjoy seeing the people im speaking to... i like to watch the men wanking, i like the couples playing i love the faces chatting... i was trying to put the point accross thats its a friendly unclique room where everyone is welcomed, but as it says no whispering , no directing on the door.. i thought maybe thats why some of the peopel on the site felt it was that way, if everyone is talking normally and flirting an having fun an maybe not watching the cams, maybe thats why some people have that opinion... il keep quiet now... every time i defend the room it doesnt help.. so im finished on this thread.. il keep my nose out of it, head down and just carry on as normal.... sorry again von if you felt i was classifying this a CHAT ONLY room i wasnt .. i was mearly sayiing its not specificly a room where you walk in and are expected to get your kit off or ya tits out.. i like the fact its a more chatty room i feel no pressure in there.. i was actually defending the room.......
furby.

To quote wat u said furby:
........ if i wanted to watch fucking.. or wanking i would go to a room more suitable for that.. (we took this to mean the mids room was not suitable for this) quote again...> but if you use the mids room in the way its inteneded.. to chat, and to make friends......(we took this to mean u felt the mids room was for chat only)
We love the mids room and the ppl in it, to repeat wat we have already said, our only objection was to a minority of ppl, who thought it was ok to abuse guy's wanking on cam.
Some ppl seem to have lost the plot about wat this thread was about, it's not a jab at the mid's room persay, it was about events we saw occuring in there, (ppl being abused on cam, guy's wanking)and that we should all be more tolerant of wat ppl want to do on cam.
We thank everyone who has taken the time to respond to this thread, wether or not they agree with wat we said.
thanks again xxxxxx

11 Dec 2007

Quote by wild rose and the stag
one of the things about posting in here furbs is getting used to folk making implications about your intent, taking a snip of what you say and using that part in a sense you never meant, sometimes to enforce their point sometimes just because they want to be argumentative, sometimes it will drive you to distraction , don't let it bother you, like I said in chat yesterday, who gives a fuck, the importance put on this place by some is way off the scale, its just a website full of bollox, if it disappeard tomorrow folk would move on within a day or two, in fact the only people it would really hurt are those that need the importance of being someone..something they get from here..
von you can't argue with your sentiments the aup doesn't allow it, no matter what folk want that's the rules of chatrooms her, big thread for not a lot isn't it?
staggy
xx

Sorry staggy, but it's sumet i feel deeply about, and if it's made some ppl think about their actions in the future...........then thats great.
I wouldent like to see u or rose took the piss out of, and would shoot anyone down in flames that did so.
even though i know ur big enough to look after your own well being, it's the fact that someone has been abusive for no reason other than, they dont like your cam.
Thank's 4 the comments
love ya both xxxxxx

11 Dec 2007

no need to say sorry as i wasnt having a go at you Von, i was commenting on how a thread can get to this size when really there is No discussion to be had, wankers can wank in the chat room, room ops and room hosts should prevent the abuse....people can cry about not liking it till the cows come home and they will, until the aup or chat room rules say otherwise they are wrong and you are right simple as that.. the fact that the thread got this far is indicative of how the 'forum' works, which was the point i was making to furbs, who had scurried away with her tail between her legs, ...
there is always more than one way to read text, forum user all too often take the wrong way ..well if they didnt there would be only half the forum we have today, ,
not sure that would be a bad thing
staggy

26 Dec 2007

maybe im jus a perv, but i like watching men "tug" on cam, esp when they cum, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm but maybe thats jus me lol redface

29 Dec 2007

after re reading the thread, i do agree and have noticed that when i do watch men wank on cam, that they do then whisper me, if i watch its coz i wanna watch, not always in mood to talk about it, however, id never say that i didnt wanna watch as this jus depends on my mood, i think they are brave enough to go on cam to do it!! half the regs wouldnt do it and im sure thats because some of them havent got the bottle, again this is no problem as its each to there own, but i dont think its fair that they are abused of it in the room xxx