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\"Who you got there?\"

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Okay, this one gets on my nerves. We've seen it numerous times - someone (male/female/couple) has a meet and they are playing on cam, a number of times with the guest/meet's face hidden. Irrespective of "the quality" of the show (For those that choose to "scrutinise the performance", you always get the odd one or two (I've seen guys as well as girls do this) as the question to the playing account/id owner:
"Who you got there?"
WTF - Why?? Is it necessary? What possible value could this information (Assuming the guest was revealed) possibly offer? Just a few guesses in poll format:
I have no idea. However, I witnessed similar in chat tonight. confused
One person commented on the pics in another person's profile and proceeded to ask who the girl was. Someone else then piped up "oh I know who that is" and then inserted the clapping emoticon. WTF?! I mean is that really what it's boiling down to? Kudos for having shagged someone that someone else happens to recognise?
It's seriously enough to put you off for life. rolleyes
I was appalled and in fact still am. So much so that I removed myself from the room before I said something I may later regret.
Clearly discretion means absolutely nothing any more.
*wanders off disgusted* mad
Totally agree with Ahabs and DG
Dave_Notts
PS who have you got there Ahabs and DG bolt
I am torn on this one... I see it coming from a few different angles....
I am really, really uncomfortable with the way some people tend to parade the fact they have a meet by playing on cam.... so you have a meet, yey, congrats! I not against peoples being on cam before or after, its actually the during that is my problem for me
Also rightly or wrongly the "discretion" angle then pops in my head, and I am seriously horrified sometimes by the lack of it, me personally would I be more or less likely to play with people who do this....for me it would be less
I think spledid said in another thread "I don't want to know who 'x' has had sex with," if i meet them... if I did then I would be less likely to meet them
some rooms and people are far worse for it than others... and I now tend to shy away from those rooms and those people
I think what compounds this is the way some people like to play "commentator".... if I am not watching the cam, well even if i am, I don't need a running commentary of what is going on.. it is my biggest peeve after people driecting!
I know it isn't against the rules for people and if they want to do it then fine, but in a way I think it is incredibly selfish of them as it is one of the things that interrupts the flow of a regular room, but I tend to ask people who do it in a room that I am op'ing is to please be considerate to others and open a new room
some do..... which sometimes gets me shouted out....
some don't... which then does tend to bring in people who just want to watch, and direct, and sometimes can stop regulars from a room from getting in...
does any of this make sense..... it does in my head..
livens the room up n better than watching porn.....
and i`m sure that if they`re on cam both...or 4 or 5 or 6... parties r happy with it ....
n if it someone we know can take a joke we can be as rude or cheeky as we like.... biggrin