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As a single guy I often struggle to think of comments to add to some of the chat roon discussions. Faced with a webcam of a womans boobs who is waiting to be persuaded to get them out, what do you say in a non directing chatroom that doesn't get you bumped!
I'd be interested in what people think are relevent topics/comments that everyone feels comfortable with in the chatrooms other than the banal "nice view love"
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As a single guy I often struggle to think of comments to add to some of the chat roon discussions. Faced with a webcam of a womans boobs who is waiting to be persuaded to get them out, what do you say in a non directing chatroom that doesn't get you bumped!
I'd be interested in what people think are relevent topics/comments that everyone feels comfortable with in the chatrooms other than the banal "nice view love"

just try and be your self,there are alot of peeps(singles and couples) who would just say"get ya tits out" "you're the best in here"...don't go down that route.....treat people on cam how you would like to be treat,as you said "you are faced with a webcam of a womans boobs who is waiting for them to be persuaded to get them out" they aren't,they are on cam because they want to ,not to be told what to do....always treat them with respect...i'm not getting at you in any way shape or form....men and women think differently....just try and join in with the chat that is going on.......
creampie, thanx 4 the comments, not looking for a user guide, just wanna have a good time and not be boring or piss anyone off
please don't apologise, i appreciate ur comments
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just try and be your self,there are alot of peeps(singles and couples) who would just say"get ya tits out" "you're the best in here"...don't go down that route.....treat people on cam how you would like to be treat,as you said "you are faced with a webcam of a womans boobs who is waiting for them to be persuaded to get them out" they aren't,they are on cam because they want to ,not to be told what to do....always treat them with respect...i'm not getting at you in any way shape or form....men and women think differently....just try and join in with the chat that is going on.......

Creampie has given the best advice anyone can give you...... I would listen to it if I were you wink
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just try and be your self,there are alot of peeps(singles and couples) who would just say"get ya tits out" "you're the best in here"...don't go down that route.....treat people on cam how you would like to be treat,as you said "you are faced with a webcam of a womans boobs who is waiting for them to be persuaded to get them out" they aren't,they are on cam because they want to ,not to be told what to do....always treat them with respect...i'm not getting at you in any way shape or form....men and women think differently....just try and join in with the chat that is going on.......

Creampie has given the best advice anyone can give you...... I would listen to it if I were you wink
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LOL, I think thats a brilliant example flower, just the sort of thing I meant
I understand, "horses for courses" thanks to everyone for advice, I'll put away my "bumper book of amusing anecdotes" for now :-)
I tend to stick around the chatroom forum room, mainly because it is so like the regular forums with simple easy to follow ( sometimes!) unwritten rules about "proper" behaviour.I have never actually seen any real nude/rude stuff on there.
I am reasonably broad minded although sometimes i have to wonder at attitudes in general on other rooms!
On an adult site one should expect adult themes and because of cam technology, adult images. Flopping your whatever out on cam is ok but what I think is the problem as you put it casual, is that people really don't know how to react ! playing by ear seems the way to go but don't put away your "amusing anecdotes" just yet ! they are your tools you really need !